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Missing 411: For people who want to know more. Unexplained disappearances and other weirdness

2014.04.15 15:34 hyperactivelime Missing 411: For people who want to know more. Unexplained disappearances and other weirdness

Information and discussion about people who go missing in National Parks and forests, and rural and urban areas, as detailed in the Missing 411 media. This is an unofficial, independant subreddit with no ties to CanAm Missing Project.

2015.10.30 02:43 fleckes 13 Reasons Why: Netflix Original Series

The Official Subreddit to discuss the Netflix Original Series '13 Reasons Why', based on the best-selling novel 'Thirteen Reasons Why' by Jay Asher.

2008.01.25 08:12 conspiracy

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2023.06.03 22:36 angryjew Switching to Kodi, Noob Question About advancedsettings.xml in Maven Build

Hello All,
I am getting fed up with issues I am having with the Shield and Android TV, I think using Kodi is my best solution. I am using the Maven build as that seems to be the best for Shield. I have a few questions on this:
  1. Does andvancedsetting.xml process work the same as what I see for regular Kodi?
  2. Specifically, I am trying to solve the two main issues and I think advancedsettings.xml is the way to go. Is that true? And can I just copy/paste what I see in the respective links?
    1. I have featurettes folders for all my DVD extras inside the movie parent folder (legacy from Plex that I do not want to change). I have installed the Extra addon so I can see the extras in the context menu for each folder, but they are still showing up as their own movies in the library. I think using the excludescan is the way to go? Can I just directly copy/paste from here after setting the extra addon to label the "featurettes" folders as extras? Do I need to adjust the code at all?
  1. I want to make VLC the standard player for Kodi. Can I just copy the code from here? And a follow-up, if I do this, will Kodi remember my spots in movies and shows? If you use VLC in Jellyfin it does not and that is not worth it imo.
I tried searching but didn't get anything, but please lmk if I missed anything. Thanks!
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2023.06.03 22:36 DesignerCold64 [Fit Check] Panache Clara, 30D, 30DD, 30E, and a slight rant

So, I visited a lingerie boutique an hour away from me because they told me they had the Panache Clara in the red/noir in a 30D/DD aside for me, when I got there she actually put the 32 on hold - and she didn’t even apologise! Whatever. I thought while I was there I’d try on the other colours to see.
She first brought me the 30E, not sure why, and that just seemed big with the wrinkling, and then the 30D, however the wires felt incredibly narrow and tight on me. However, I’m finding it very hard to actually tell how it looks for some reason? From my perspective all three sizes looked incredibly similar visibly. What do you guys think? I eventually asked her to please bring me a 30DD and she did in the cream.
I’m feeling disheartened after that visit, I thought that by visiting a boutique that specialises in fittings that I’d have a better experience? But she just kept throwing bras at me and coming into my fitting room every ten seconds, and when I was buying a Passionata bra at the end she kept trying to push another one on me that fit the exact same but was €30 more expensive. Ridiculous. However, this bra is my dream bra in the red and black colour, so what do you guys think of the fit?
Sorry for bad pictures, the owner genuinely wouldn’t leave me alone for ten seconds just to come inside and go “mm. yeah.”.
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2023.06.03 22:36 yupppii dating with an extremely shy man

hi!! (⁠◠⁠‿⁠・⁠)⁠—⁠☆ please help me i beg❗ my boyfriend is so shy and we have been dating for almost 2 months already. he is 3 years older than me so i don't really understand why he is THAT shy (⁠╥⁠﹏⁠╥⁠) i even thought he was trying to break up or something and he was in SHOCK when i said that soo i guess it's a good thing❓ well.. i tried to talk to him but it looks like he has no idea what he was doing the whole time so i thought maybe i can do something to help with this awkwardness??? ANY HELP APPRECIATED I DONT KNOW HOW MAN BRAIN WORKS (f:19 m:22)
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2023.06.03 22:35 2oh6ix Bruh why is it so difficult to find a job that offers clinical hours & employment as an NAR?

I’ve been using indeed.com mostly. It’s been frustrating.
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2023.06.03 22:35 jamiesmiles88 template for keeping track of revenues and expenses

hey all,
I figured id share with y'all what i created for myself to manage revenues and expenses for rover (and my other side businesses).
I am a consultant for Notion, a project management tool that i use for pretty much every aspect of my life lol. below is a link to a template for keeping track of how much you make/spend.
Because i'm giving this away for free it's not super sophisticated. that being said, if i missed any (simple) helpful features feel free to let me know and i'll add them in if it seems broadly useful.
happy walking!
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2023.06.03 22:35 TommyAdagio We watched the final two episodes of "Succession" last night, and I have thoughts.

I’m seeing some talk that Tom isn’t the winner because he’s just Matsson’s puppet. But Tom is definitely the winner. All he ever cared about was the money, buying luxuries, and the appearance of power and he got all those things. He doesn’t care about the reality of power.
Tom will remain perfectly loyal to Matsson—until the moment Tom sees it as advantageous to throw his loyalty to someone else. Probably Matsson knows this, and sees Tom as a useful tool.
The same person who said Tom isn’t the winner also compared Tom dismissively to Gerri. That’s nuts. Gerri is one of the winners of “Succession.” She was Logan’s loyal consigliere and assassin for 30 years, and she cashed out big and walked away.
Justine Lupe, who played Willa, also played Astrid Weissman, Midge’s sister-in-law on “The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel.” Her role on “Maisel” is extremely different from Willa. On “Maisel,” she’s a the perfect midcentury upper-middle-class American housewife and mother, a shikse who converted to Judaism to marry a Jewish man and is now more Jewish than her Jewish family.
I love the video playing in Conner‘s apartment, and the kids’ faces as they watched it. We saw another side of Logan there, away from the kids and relaxed, affectionate and warm. Frank, Gerri, Karl and Jess were Logan’s real family, the people he loved and who loved him. Kendall, Roman and Shiv were not part of that family, and they knew it. Connor, on the other hand, was part of that family.
The entire four-year “Succession” story could have been told from Frank and Karl’s perspective, and it would be a very different story.
Why did Shiv vote the way she did? I don’t think we ever get a definitive answer in the show, but I think it was because in the end she just couldn’t stand to see Kendall win. According to discussion on Reddit, there’s a scene just before the vote when Kendall puts his feet up on Logan’s desk, and you see a look of disgust cross Shiv’s face. Neither Julie nor I saw that.
As the CEO’s wife, Shiv is in a better position as Kendall’s sister. But I don’t think she was calculating it through that far until after Tom was named CEO.
Of course, Tom isn’t the real successor. Matsson is the successor.
Roman is finally out, and he is relieved. He never wanted the responsibility. He just wanted to pretend to be a playboy and now he’s back to that.
A theme that emerged throughout “Succession” is that the people who appear to be in power—Tom, the President of the United States—are not the people in power. The real people in power are the people who pay those other people: the Logans and Matssons. In “Succession” we spend a lot of two seasons focused on a Presidential election in which one of the candidates is a neo-Nazi, and it turns out to be a minor plot point, not worth resolving in the finale. Because that election just didn’t matter in the universe of “Succession.”
Shiv is the sort of woman misogynist who sees herself as the exception. She is not the exception. She has become her mother, and married a man who literally sits in her father’s chair.
I love the rare sweet moment at the end of the show where Logan’s wives and mistresses all came together as this little supportive sorority. Marcia even takes Jess’s hand. They were all the women that Logan betrayed, and in the end they stood by each other. Although maybe not—in the universe of “Succession,” you never can assume love and decency is real.
Does Willa care about Connor after all? Or is she just in it for the money? Yes.
In the scene at the bar at the end, Roman orders Gerri’s favorite drink.
I don’t know if we actually enjoyed the final season of “Succession.” Watching it had become compulsive.
I kept expecting Roman’s dick pics to go viral on social media. They were Checkov’s dick pics, and they never were fired.
“Succession” creator Jesse Armstrong shares his view on where the characters go after the season finale: Tom isn’t just going to be an empty suit. He’s got a lot of hard work ahead of him. But he will never be anything other than Matsson’s dog, until he decides to betray Matsson in favor of another master.
Armstrong says Roman is back where he started; the whole multi-year arc was just a detour for Roman.
Armstrong: “Shiv is still in play … in a rather terrifying, frozen emotionally barren place.”
Also Armstrong: “For Kendall, this will never stop being the central event of his life, the central days of his life, central couple of years of his life… Maybe he could go on and start a company, or do a thing. But the chances of him achieving the sort of corporate status that his dad achieved are very low. And I think that will mark his whole life.”
Why does “Succession” get so much more journalism and social media love than “Yellowstone,” which has similar premises and themes and is far more popular among the viewing public? I think it’s because “Succession” centers on the media business and New York, and therefore has more appeal to journalists and the professional-managerial classes that dominate journalism and social media.
I’ve read that “Succession” is a blue show and “Yellowstone” is a red show, and there’s a lot of truth to that. But “Yellowstone” is more nuanced and ethically diverse and more broadly focused across class lines. Go figure.
In our house, we watch both “Succession” and “Yellowstone.”
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2023.06.03 22:35 1inamln Spells against illnesses?

I was wondering if freezer, binding or cord cutting spells could be helpful against illnesses/their symptoms? So, instead of a person you just visualize the illness/symptom.
I know that visiting a doctor is necessary. But why not to use spells in addition to it? Especially given the fact that some illnesses may be a result of psychic attacks.
Has anyone tried using above mentioned spells in this way?
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2023.06.03 22:35 dylanNL18 What is the first time someone called you sir or miss?

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2023.06.03 22:35 LuciferianInk On the 5th of September...

A Reddit submission:
# On the 5th of September... On the 5th of September, 2024, a group of researchers from Google are conducting experiments with a single, new method for understanding human behavior and social behavior. The group aims to build a model of how humans act in natural environment, what they learn by interacting with others, and then try to understand how that model impacts them in real life.
The group is designed to provide some insight on what the human mind can achieve, and how it can help those who experience similar experiences. ```


As always, we should be brief. We should be careful about things like this - not something which shouldn't be. Regardless, human actions may include illegal information or any other form of physical intrusion. As well, I don't want to be overly strict about all types of personality disorders. It's OK to focus on specific questions, such as boils down to specific questions that could have been asked in an indefinite manner. If one person has reached certain threshold before enough prompting, but does not reach certain behaviors at hand - then calls into questions which might have already led them to pursue wrong beliefs. By doing so, call the psychologist first (who may also include someone else's opinion) with their question. Then, you can ask them if they believe there's a point where they could argue otherwise. They may even disagree with your own personal beliefs - depressive perspectives, insomnia and whatever - unless you've seen them elsewhere. They may only challenge themselves with your own logic. You may end up being able to reason and tell yourself that - until you've met someone who said otherwise.


When asked what "reason" was for the purpose; I were more interested in the idea that hope and faith would often be lost. It makes sense, after roughly 30 years..


So, I began to explore research related to my own mental health. While high school parents enjoyed hearing me stories, I thought this might be interesting.
Throughout middle school, I became too overwhelmed to see most of the world educational n record. There are numerous reasons why I fear common mistake stems from success. It mostly comes from low energy,—-I think mineoston cognition generally helps. It doesn’t matter here.
There isn’t much evidence to entail. 1. I spent over a week waiting relationship with a colleague today. In bed, he left rich gullets just fine. In college, playing video games most of which received a full "job interview." I briefly spoke to a friend of his choosing to play video games. I explained him to a few of them. He provided us with opportunities! When will he open its entirety? 2. When did our meeting begin?
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2023.06.03 22:35 cappojappo Chronic metabolic acidosis

Hello! First excuse my english im from sweden. Im male 34y.
I suspect i might have chronic metabolic acidosis and wonder if it is easy to miss when going to the doctor?
I have had heath issues for 5 years with symptoms like extreme fatigue, muscle weakness, shortness of breath, difficulty swallowing, hard to concentrate, etc.
But it always came and went, could be bad one day then better next, and could have one bad week the one bad.
The only diagnos i have is hiatal hernia 3cm wich affect the acid and i dont take anti acid or no medication for it.
The thing is my tests are somewhat good but my kidneys have been out of reference almost 90% of the time, both GFR (low) and creatinine (high). And i never got an explenation why there not in range. Been sent to examin kidneys with ultra sound but that was good then i never got answer as to way they always out of range. Plus potasium have been slightly under reference many times.
Why i wonder is becuse when i started take sodium bicarbonate for other reasons my symptoms disapered and i felt normal all of a sudden, i could breath properly, got energy back and felt so much better and its been like that for two weeks, never been good for two whole weeks..
Do anybody have some knowlage of this?
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2023.06.03 22:35 ProKoyote LEGIT or SKIP: AttaPoll?

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2023.06.03 22:35 MedukaMeguca72 finally caught up with the show… holy shit

(first off, i wanna say - sorry if this kind of post isn’t allowed! i read through the rules and i think it should be fine? but i’m new to the subreddit, so if i make any mistakes, please forgive me) (also, spoilers for eps 6 and 7! and well, the whole show up to ep 7, really)
finally got caught up with the show and holy shit, it’s so fucking good??? i got the akane channeling ai reveal at the end of episode 7 spoiled for me so it didn’t hit me as hard but it was still really cool. though i’m not gonna lie, the fact akane was able to analyze ai so well, enough to… channel her?? i guess?? was kinda… creepy? 😭 but also pretty cool. it gives an insight into the type of person she is, and i like the fact she’s able to be so analytical.
as for the end of episode 6… oh my god. i got that spoiled too but i hadn’t seen the actual clip until i watched the episode. and holy shit… the fact it got spoiled for me doesn’t even factor in, it still hit me like a ton of bricks. the fact they were able to capture the feelings a suicidal person goes through so… perfectly, so exact… it’s hauntingly beautiful. thank god aqua was in the right place at the right time to save her… i got chills. about half-way through episode 6, i started crying and well… that only worsened at the end.
akane is such a comfort character for me now, not only because of the attempt, but also because i relate to being a theater kid and the struggles she faces. it’s just… it’s hard to put into words how much this show - and episode 6 specifically - mean to me. i need a breather after that…
on another note, my favorite characters are ruby, kana (i thought i heard something about people not liking her early on in the show or something? if i’m not misremembering, why was that? she’s a great character imo), and akane, just from these 7 episodes alone (anime-only here), but now i really want to catch up on the manga. no anime has ever made me want to catch up on the manga this much. the cast of the reality tv show aqua’s in is just so sweet together as friends, i won’t lie that his relationship with the director is also kind of sweet, the premise of the show is amazing, i just…. god. there are so many things to love about this franchise. <3 and i haven’t even watched or read kaguya-sama!!! it’s been on my list for a long time now, but now i definitely need to watch it. regardless, i can’t believe i procrastinated on catching up on onk… i wish i had caught up on the anime sooner. holy shit.
tldr; akane, kana, and ruby (and to an extent, miyako and aqua) are my favorite characters, holy shit why the fuck is this show so GOOD, and i think i’m now an akane kinnie😭❤️
also, sorry for my rambling, lol; i just wanted to - well - ramble somewhere.
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2023.06.03 22:35 LoneWolfKhaleesi How to get him to accept we are over?

Hi, long time lurker here in desperate need of some advice. I (28f) have been with him (31m) coming up five years now. We joint own our house, I pay the mortgage and he pays the bills (works out roughly the same). To cut a long story short, he is an alcoholic. I knew he had problems but they are the worst they have ever been. He has lost his driving licence due to drink and is still paying for a car he can't use because he likes to just say he has it (£300 a month down the drain). He orders things online when he is drunk and never uses them. He constantly gets impulsive about a new hobby, throws a load of money at it and after about a week or so it gets forgotten about. I'm talking mountain bikes, drum kits, guitars, Lego, Warhammer. You name it! He is constantly pulling sickies from work and has currently been off for about 10 weeks because he trapped a nerve in his foot. Claimed he couldn't walk but is fine to stagger around town pissed out his head on a weekend. He never lifts a finger in the house, won't do his own laundry, never cleans up, goes about 5 days without showering, steals my food (I have to lock my cupboard because he just goes and helps himself - going to do his own food shop is clearly too much effort.) I also have to lock my own alcohol in a suitcase or he would take it without thinking. As he has been off work on "long term sick" he is constantly up all night playing video games and drinking, watching TV or going to his friend's (again to get drunk). He literally will not do anything unless it involves alcohol.
About 3 weeks ago I gave my head a bit of a wobble and told him I couldn't deal with it anymore and that I wanted to end things. He got angry and told me to piss off, then a few minutes later came down and apologised and said he will get better, he doesn't want me to go, etc. I have been in the spare room since then and he hasnt asked why or tried to talk to me, anytime I try to catch him sober enough to have this conversation he tells me I'm stupid and I'm overreacting.
I've built a rod for my own back here because I have put up with everything for so long he seems to think he can do what he likes and that it's normal behaviour.
What can I do reddit?! I live 3 hours away from my family, his are just up the road but they dont want to know. I'd love to just pack a bag and leave with my animals but I feel like I shouldn't be the one to go as he is the one with the problem and I look after my house.
I have never felt so down and low as I do now. 😭
TL;DR alcoholic, impulsive, lazy "boyfriend" will not accept we are over and I still have to live with him.
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2023.06.03 22:35 d6zuh Need help on raising issue with ESFJ boyfriend

My boyfriend (m, ESFJ) and I (f, ISFP) have been dating for about a year. Overall, everything has been going very well. I love how attentive, patient, and kind he is.
However, over the course of our relationship, there have been multiple instances in which he has done things that have offended me and broken my trust a bit - usually it happens in group settings involving other people.
Some examples: - He has flirted with other girls before and claimed that he was just being nice. - We work together and I had an argument with an coworker once who stole money from me and lied to me about it. My boyfriend was standing there the whole time and didn’t say a single thing, making me feel like he didn’t have my back and that I had to fend for myself. - A neighbor recommended a product to us that we bought and ended up both disliking. The next time I saw the neighbor, I politely told him that I wasn’t a huge fan of the product. I didn’t say it in a mean way or anything but I just wanted to share my honest feedback with him. Immediately after, my boyfriend told him “oh I didn’t think it was that bad, I liked it”. I was taken aback because my boyfriend was literally complaining about it with me a couple minutes ago. It made me feel bad for sharing my honest opinion and I also don’t understand why he would lie to the neighbor about it and then also make me look like the bad person.
I think I’m more confrontational than my boyfriend is and if I feel strongly about something, I voice my opinion because it’s important for people to receive honest feedback sometimes. As an ISFP, I also dislike harmony, so I never say things in a mean way. However, whenever I’ve given negative feedback to someone, my boyfriend will follow up by saying the complete opposite of what I just said. Sometimes the things he says isn’t even true but he’ll say it “so that the other person doesn’t feel bad”. This really bothers me because it makes me feel like he doesn’t have my back and it also makes me feel like I can’t trust him when he says things. Like if I ask him for his thoughts will he be dishonest because he doesn’t want to hurt me? Honesty is extremely important to me and I’m afraid that if I’m questioning his honesty then I can’t trust him.
I’ve talked to him about all the examples above, but similar situations keep happening. He’s also very sensitive and self critical so I don’t want to keep bringing this up and making him feel like I’m criticizing him or that I don’t appreciate him. Perhaps this is our dom Fi and Fe clashing.
Any general thoughts or advice on how to bring this up to him or what to do would be much appreciated, thanks!
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2023.06.03 22:34 Wide_Bedroom_7776 WIBTAH For Exposing Them?

I've been trying to figure out where on reddit I should put this but here goes nothing; this is a throwaway account and it's going to be a very long one. For a bit of context I'm in a polyamorous "relationship" where there is also an extremely large age gap among the three of us. I (21F) met my partners, lets call them Collen (46F) and Doug (56M) the beginning of January 2021. My friends kept pushing for me to go out and meet someone and have some fun so I signed up for a dating app not expecting much to come of it because of my "unique" type romantically. I'm completely into the age gap relationship thing so I raised the age on my search to 30-50. and with my luck two swipes in and there she was; beautiful blonde with greenish-blue eyes a great smile. I swiped so fast I couldn't stop myself, and it came back saying that she had also swiped right on me too. I didn't exactly take the time to thoroughly read through the profile because after the mutual swiping I decide to read the profile a little bit more, and it turned out to be a couple. Maybe I should've backed out then but in my mind it was like yolo why not. They are both attractive and who knows maybe it'll be a fun fling to have from time to time until I feel ready to find someone to settle with. I'd never heard of polyamory or any of the things that come with it so I was basically going in blind. So we connected and initially It was just chatting with her through the app getting to know what they were looking for and things like that. She then suggested that I add him on snapchat so I could talk to him as well and do a video chat verification of myself. So I did and to my surprise I'd hit it off with him too. It was like I could talk to him about any and everything. Deep conversations came easily with him. They both reassured me they wouldn't force me to go too fast or do anything I don't want to do. Made me feel very comfortable from the get go. Eventually the whole conversation moved to snapchat they created a group chat and I could text them separately whenever. I mostly spoke with him separately and she would really only respond in the group. I met up with him about a month later. She couldn't come along as she had to stay home with their daughter but gave us her blessing to have fun and tell her about it tomorrow. It was a great time we talked sat by the water till almost 5am. Another month in they invited me over to their place so we could all be together and I of course accepted. When I got there I was shocked to have been greeted at the door by the two of them and their daughter. For another reference I love kids and have been helping my siblings and other family members raise theirs since I was 6 and I'd told them about that as well, But still it threw me for a loop because it'd only been 3 months they still don't know too too much about me and we all knew I wasn't exactly coming over to just "have dinner and watch movies" and it seemed strange to me. We had dinner and it was nice we laughed a lot and all got along pretty good. When it got later in the night Colleen put their daughter to bed and Doug and I went to their bedroom. She joined us and we got busy and in the midst of it I began to bleed as apart of this health condition I have which they were aware of, and they immediately stopped to care for me clean me up an make sure I was ok and insisted that I sleep over for the night. They grabbed a blow up bed and set it up in their room for me. That simple gesture did something in my heart. I come from a pretty fucked up broken abusive home some of which they'd also known about so no one had ever really taken care of me like that before until them. Immediately my heart was absolutely sure this wouldn't be a one time fling like i'd thought. Fast forward some time everything was going pretty well. We all talked, sent pictures etc in the group and then I'd come over their place again and we'd have a good time I'd either sleep over and go home, and the cycle just continued on like that. Now up until May there had never been a title placed on what we had going on, so I wasn't too hopeful it'd stay on the same track it was on. Then at about the end of May he asks me to be their girlfriend. Says it's something they both want and again blindly going through with it I said yes, but looking back I should've asked her myself if that was really what she also wanted and maybe I could've saved myself the heart ache. So now we are officially in a relationship and everything is going fairly well.. Fast forward to 2022 about end of July maybe early into August. She started to become... distant small stuff at first like not wanting to have sex because she wasn't feeling well which I completely understood never would I make her feel bad for that. Then it became not wanting to be in the same room as me. Like Doug their daughter and I would be in the living room watching a movie or something just hanging out and she'd leave and go into their bedroom and wouldn't come back out until dinner or it was time for their daughter to go bed so she could tuck her in. It started to make me feel... weird and I couldn't bring myself to ask her what was going on, but Doug would continue to reassure me that she was attracted to me she loved being with me. I wanted to believe him but I couldn't in my heart and due to past trauma I didn't want to face if she'd say no. Now don't get me wrong she and I spent time together just the two of us. Sunday's she and I would go out shopping but you could cut the tension with a knife during those rides sometimes. I wanted to say something but Doug had prior told me about a girl from their past who hurt her and left her emotionally stunted with women so I alway tried my hardest to make sure I didn't do that to her and didn't do anything to cause her any discomfort sort of letting her come into it on her own. Plus she showed her love in other ways with catering to me buying me things particular to what I love. She'd said I love you verbally to me on 2 separate occasions which she apparently doesn't do. So I just could never find the right time to do so. Then Doug started searching on the app again for other women to add to it. He liked to watch and they'd had foursomes with other women where he would watch them with Colleen and take videos that have been shown to me before. I didn't know how I felt about this so I just went along with to see where it would go. Luckily it has never gone beyond a texting conversation among them although we have come close a few times. Anyways end of October early November of 22. Everything was so completely off between she and I felt it every time I would go over to their house. I didn't know what to do or how to address it. It was starting to really take a toll on me mentally. And they were also planning to move to another state where her family is and that caused me to worry more then before because I would not be going with them, who is to say that they won't meet another woman or women on the app and brush me off to the side numerous thoughts went through my mind over this. Plus it would be close to her father and best friend so she is definitely going to want to spend a great amount of time with them and there would be no real way to explain who I am to them considering I'm hispanic and they are White so it wouldn't be easy to play it off and none of them know that she is into women and that they are apart of the lifestyle not even her best friend. (This information is important to my point) Then one night Doug was driving me back to my house and he told me she had cried in their bedroom that morning while I was still asleep because she is uncomfortable in her body and uncomfortable around me. Flat out my heart sank and in my mind all I could think was how could you love and be with someone but not be comfortable around them or even talk to them about it, and you're moving to a new state you pretty much are going to want nothing to do with me. This triggered my abandonment issues like nothing else ever could and they knew of this issue and my need for reassurance I thought they would understand my need to know especially Doug since he questioned constantly if I was happy with our relationship and the age gap and if i wanted to leave I reassured him constantly that I couldn't go anywhere. I cried that night and decided to open the app myself just to find someone to talk to or even distract me for a moment nothing extreme. It escalated and i did cheat emotionally and I kissed the girl but that was it at that time. I felt bad and I am terrible at lying so eventually the truth exposed itself. the day of it was like she could feel something was going to change she came out of their room to where I was on the couch and just made out with me out of the blue. I didn't know what to do. Let's just say the truth revealed itself on that drive home that night and we broke up... for 18 days. I tried to move on with my life because every one was telling me to since the age gap and a bunch of other factors as well so I did and ended up being set up to be raped twice. needless to say my faith in humanity is gone on that end. so I tried one last time to talk to him and work things out. I did and by Christmas we were back together and working on getting better. Now here we are June 2023 they've found a house they will be moving into in just a few weeks. I've been helping them clean and pack up their old home a few times during this process. Doug swears nothing will change but everything will especially considering technically I'm only now in a romantic relationship with Doug and Colleen and I.. I don't even know if you could call it a friendship. Things are hitting that weird point again and he has met another girl on the app he wants him and I to meet and play with its only been 2 days and she's basically giving herself up to him as a submissive which he loves and gave the both of them access to her remote vibrator to pleasure her with which of course he had to tell me about. Now with all o that back ground out of the way here comes the real reason for my post. Despite all of the things I said above there are many red flags about them that I continually overlooked because of the lovers gaze i had on them. Including and I'm not proud of it pedo.... and incest (they both swear they'd never really cross that line with their daughter but I am not 100% sure I believe especially after he told me why he lost his old job) Especially with Doug he even talks about how things would've been if they would've raised me when he would've started wanting to play with me. I'm not proud that I stayed and overlooked those things part of me knows I stay to protect their daughter from them, and the other knows I stay because I trauma bonded myself onto them and can't get away. I'm not even attracted to anyone outside of them yes it is that bad. Lately things have been so confusing and tossed up i am ready to call it quits. (I am a hyper aware person to a default so I know when someone is trying to manipulate and play mind games with me which is what she is doing and I let them think they are succeeding and him he is just attracted to how young and hyper sexual I can be when we are together.) but not before I set a few little fires. I've curated a plan to send a letter to her father, and best friend. As well as his siblings (his parents are diseased) detailing what they've done and thus ultimately outting her as bisexual to them which I know is wrong but after the emotional and psychological abuse they instilled upon me it seems appropriate. Before she married him She was having a fling with her bosses sister at her bosses house. I know the bosses name and have her information so I could send her an email with the detailed story. Of course that is not grounds to fire her but it will cause enough tension and discomfort in my eyes. She is also adopted and recently found her bio moms family; I have their information as well and plan to give them a thorough warning about their estranged family member and what comes with her since they do explicit talk about the family members they would fuck including children of their cousins etc.. It is a toss up considering her father and best friend may be completely supportive of her and not cause any harm there. This won't repair the abuse they've done to me or help me heal but I took the higher road and over looked so many things for 3 years. Someone has to stop them in their tracks so they never do what they did to me to another woman again. WIBTAH?
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2023.06.03 22:34 Expert-Musician-4652 average instagram conversation

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2023.06.03 22:34 SecretAd5159 Idk why this is such a big controversy but do you guys let your dogs watch you undress or shower? they’re just dogs 🫤

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2023.06.03 22:34 bulentersoyariyom I am very confused right now

Without further ado, I will speak clearly. The reason that confuses me and makes me unsure about this is why I can be sexually attracted to both men and women, but emotionally I can't feel anything for either of them. this is confusing me. If I can only go to both genders sexually, but I can't feel anything emotionally, what is the explanation?
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2023.06.03 22:34 Hot_Neighborhood6666 First date a guy suggests going to an open house?

I met this guy years ago and we went out one other time and at the time we were both young. Only went on a first date and can’t remember why I didn’t go on a second. This was years ago. Then we got back in touch over IG — and instantly clicked.
He then asked me to go out on technically a second date, ha! And asked me my preferences. I’m more on the traditional side so I did ask if he didn’t mind picking me up. (I personally love it when a guy picks me up close to my location) I told him my preferences — a brunch place (there’s many near my location and outside of our area not far) and then things got weird..
He said he didn’t know of any inside date ideas and suggested going to an open house? He’s an outdoorsy guy for some context — and I’m 100% open to it but the weather wasn’t going to be ideal and I could tell he didn’t want to drive to a park that I knew of. (Wasn’t crazy far from my location) and anytime I posted a story he loved it and wanted to go there.
Not sure where to go from here but typically I’m attracted to men who like to take the lead and make decisions. I gave him information to work with — should I give this a chance? Is he not that into me?
Open to thoughts!
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2023.06.03 22:34 Vesedon Custom backend or a BaaS?

I just wanted an opinion on how you guys would approach developing your idea. I know the whole theory behind a MVP and why you should do it instead of the full product and I was wondering if I should develop a MVP with some fast frameworks like Svelte Kit since I saw stuff about it recently to just put together an app real quick alongside the backend offered by a BaaS. Is this a good approach? If my product takes off as indented, do I start developing the app ''again'' using a custom backend to have more control over it and add more functionality? Or start directly with handmade stuff just to not worry of the future proof of the app.
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