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The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines muscle cars as, "any of a group of American-made 2-door sports coupes with powerful engines designed for high-performance driving." Although opinions vary, it is often cited that the 1949 Oldsmobile Rocket 88 is the first muscle car ever created. It was designed with speed and power in mind, using a powerful engine with a lightweight body.
By the mid-1970s some of this market converged into personal luxury performance cars, thus beginning an era where personal luxury trumped lightweight speed.
Performance-type cars began to make a return in the United States during the 1980s, however with new regulations governing safety and pollution combined with increased production costs, these new vehicles were not designed to the formula of the traditional low-cost muscle cars. Introducing electronic fuel injection and overdrive transmission to the remaining muscle car survivors like the Ford Mustang, Chevrolet Camaro and Pontiac Firebird helped sustain a market share for them alongside personal luxury coupes with performance packages.
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Karl Brauer, editor-in-chief of the online car review aggregator "Total Car Score" is a self-described fanatic who characterizes muscle cars as his "primary passion." He compiled a list of what he considers 10 classic American muscle cars, saying, "Vintage car collectors consider these must-haves!"
Karl Brauer's list:
• 1970 Oldsmobile 442 W-30 • 1974 Pontiac Firebird Trans Am SD455 • 1970 Buick GSX Stage 1 • 1970 Chevrolet Chevelle SS 454 LS6 • 1970 Pontiac GTO Judge Ram Air IV • 1968 Ford Mustang GT500KR • 1969 Ford Boss 429 Mustang • 1969 Dodge Charger Daytona Hemi • 1971 Plymouth Hemi 'Cuda • 1969 Chevrolet Camaro ZL1
Car buffs sometimes refer to classic muscle cars as "overpowered iron beasts" because these cars were built to deliver and beating and also to take one. They often burned rubber, and were anything but agile. Big, heavy, loud and rude, they embodied everything that was great about the American auto industry of the 1960s and 1970s.
American car-maker Chevrolet offered many different types, beginning with the Corvette in 1953, adding the Impala, Chevelle, El Camino, and Nova to its ranks throughout the years.
Dodge threw their hat into the ring beginning with the 1966 Charger, adding the Challenger and Super Bee thereafter.
Other American car-makers offerings include:
• AMC's AMX and Javelin • Buick's Grand National • Ford's Mustang and Thunderbird • Mercury's Cougar • Oldsmobile's Olds 442 • Plymouth's Barracuda and GTX • Pontiac's Firebird and GTO
Restoring When restoring muscle cars, people have differing views on whether staying true to the original factory's work is the best way to go, or whether improving on anything you can is better. One thing to keep in mind is that a well-documented restoration performed by a renowned shop will always hold more value than one that's undocumented or completed by an unknown shop or individuals.
Customizing Muscle cars are experiencing a resurgence in popularity, however finding one in mint condition is near impossible. Finding one that needs to be restored, and/or customized is a different story. So many different things about these cars can be customized, it is best to do your research on what features you would like to customize before getting a bid from someone.
Most likely people who own custom car shops are huge car fans who have learned the skills to do something they truly enjoy doing. Ask to see some of their work before going with a custom car shop, and remember it's OK to barter when asking for custom work to be done to your muscle car.

I live in my roommates house that her family owns. It’s just the two of us there but her older brother pays for the house and i just pay him rent which is pretty cheap and the utilities are all included. However, my roommate doesn’t use the dishwasher. She uses it for storing dishes that she cleans by hand. So this means everytime i cook i have to do all the dishes by hand. I did this for many years when i was at university and honestly i’m just tired of it. I’ve mentioned it before asking why she doesn’t run it but she said to save water. Because her family is the one to pay the utilities i don’t want to run up their water bill but at the same time i really want to use the dishwasher because i’m at a point in my life where i’m working long hours and dont have the energy to keep doing everything by hand. Would it be wrong or me to ask to start using the dishwasher? How much will it really run up the bill?

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Celine Pico Belt Bag, Light Taupe - $90
* Main call out is that the strap clip on the back was broken when I received it, so I had it replaced at the cobbler. Hence, the clips don't match and that's the reason for the low price. Otherwise in great condition - no scratches or tears. Suede interior is stain free
.Celine Triomphe Belt, Black - $50
Shiny calfskin leather in great condition. Belt has \~7 holes so fits a variety of sizes. It's a smidge long on me (i use the 4th hole out of 7 for high waisted trousers) and I normally wear an 85. Belt says it’s 105 but not sure if that's real.
Polène Cyme Tote, Large, Camel - $75
Love the magnets on the end of the bag so you can adjust the shape. No scratches or tears, though some creasing near bottom where "Polene" is stamped in gold. Comes with dust bag and the removeable inner pouch.

I (23F) started a new office job in May 2022 and quickly became inseparable with my coworker (also 23F). We would spend time after work together, share weed, and even took care of her kitten when she wasn't allowed to have pets in her apartment. We became very close and she was like a sister to me.
However, in January 2023, tensions were high during a couples hangout due to her receiving bad news about a family member passing away. I said something that was taken the wrong way and she snapped at me. We apologized over text but at work, she was off with me for a few days. We eventually made up but she was hot and cold towards me for a few months.
One week, she ignored me all week and I assumed it was another instance of her not liking me. However, it turns out it was the anniversary of her mum's death, which we had bonded over as I had also lost my dad recently. I have difficulty dealing with grief and didn't cry much on my dad's anniversary, so I didn't realize the significance of the day for her.
When we tried to mend our friendship last month, she brought up how hurt she was that I ignored her on the anniversary of her mum's death. I tried to apologize and explain, but she wouldn't hear it.
Now, we work in separate departments and she goes out of her way to make my job difficult.
So, am I the arsehole for ignoring my friend on the anniversary of her mum's death?

I need Honda civic rebirth or Toyota Corrolla

Howdy peeps. (age preference is 22-59 is totally ok!!)
I'm not good at introducing so please bear with me. I’m a colombian, 25F but in USA now for 2yrs. Im a friendly girl who wants to have a smooth and long term friendship, looking for a kind and funny friend whom I can vibes with. (I hope you're just near me, here in USA)
Some of my interests are — Cooking, singing, dancing, Watching movies, go out with a friend but sometimes im also a homebody person.
I’m a big fan of horror films, As well as cartoons/disney. Hbu? Are you watching some of those now? Maybe you can recommend me one.
I love to talk about anything and everything so maybe I can learn something form you. I’m pretty much willing to have a friend, an easy going person.I hope we good. 🙌

I'm a 38(F) and recently have been tortured by old repressed memories from when I was about 6 or 7 years old.
My brother, who is 6 years older than me, would lure me into his room at night by promising me he would hang out with me and let me play with his toys. I absolutely adored and idolized my brother. He not only was my big brother, he was always the golden child. He didn't do well in school, but he was the quiet obedient one... he was the easy child my parents adored. I was the loud opinionated child that would back talk even at an early age. So anyway, he would turn on these weird strobe lights he had on his nightstands (I guess to set the mood), then lay on his bed and force me to make out with him with tongue. I don't recall whether he would make me touch him or he would touch himself - the memories are just too hazy, but I do remember the kissing clearly.
These memories have tortured me for decades. I can go on for years without thinking about them, and then suddenly they resurface and stir up all kinds of confusing emotions.
When I was about 11, I confronted him and told him I remembered what he had forced me to do, and he denied it. Any normal brother would get upset about that kind of allegation, but he just got nervous and told me "You must have dreamt that, that never happened", but how could a 6 year old dream up that kind of thing, strobe lights and all???
Since then, I've never confronted him about it again. I also considered telling my mom, but she's nearly 70 now and it would absolutely break her heart, so I've decided not to. Plus, I've found it to be pointless to confront him again since he gaslit me the first time, and to be honest, I feel so much SHAME over this. My brother and I remained close throughout the years until a few years ago. Now we speak to each other only when we visit one another's homes about once every 2 or 3 months.
I've always wondered if this abuse was the catalyst to all my issues with relationships with men.
Also, he now has 2 children, a 9 yr old boy and 5 yr old girl, and as sweet as his boy is, I constantly worry about him doing to her what my brother did to me.

I’m currently at secondary school but am looking at universities. I know that I want to be a business teacher and probably won’t change that view.
I’m pretty smart (predicted all 9s (or equivalent) at GCSE) and have a rough shortlist of Bath, LSE, Kings, Durham and Manchester Metropolitan for an undergraduate degree in either business or management depending on the uni.
However, although those universities are quite prestigious, for the PGCE I’m planning to go to Bishop Grosseteste or Sheffield purely because they’re near to where I live (and plan to stay) and are cheap(ish).
Is going to a lesser university after a waste of time? Should I change my plan?

Hello All,
About 3 years ago I began my journey to get away from expensive disposable razors. I was tiered of spending nearly 50$ every time I needed a new pack of disposable blade cartridges I knew would not last, and worst of all clogged so bad that using them was an agony. I decided to hell with them Ill give a safety razor a shot, and I've not regretted it for a second! Since then I've tired and enjoyed more types of blades then I knew existed, and loved them all for their own reasons, and strengths (except derby it knows what it did!) I now find myself ready to finally invest in a decent handle. Not that what I've had has no served me well, but unfortunately my vintage Gillett fatboy gave up the ghost, and now Bi-metal corrosion has claimed the screw in my 3 piece Edwin Jagger. I've decided now that theirs no chance of me going back to disposables, I should invest in something nice. At 31 I have a lot of life left (I hope) and I'd like to get something that I might have for many many years. So I figured it could not hurt to ask. What good out their? What do you recommend. I liked the butterfly mech of the fatboy, but the 3 piece is so solid and the weight feels good in the hand. I'd like to find something with a scalloped bar, and a smooth cap. I think I'm ready for something a little more aggressive too now that I've had 3 years to practice, and no longer nick myself unless I'm being careless. Any help is appreciated!

Using my anonymous account for obvious reasons.
21F, 5’9, 220lbs, taking Sprintec birth control, Buspar, Paxil, and gabapentin.
I’ve had some very irregular poops lately, and have had on and off stomach pain for nearly a week. The pain is sharp, similar to bloating, but much more intense. In the beginning, when my stomach started cramping, I wasn’t really having any notable poops. Now though, I’ve had almost exclusively diarrhea. I was also extremely nauseous at first, and now it’s a lot less significant but still there.
This started last week while I was on a trip out of town. I’ve had a history of constipation for as long as I can remember, and when I travel it can sometimes flare up. I also had a pretty significant panic attack while on the trip. I’ve had panic attacks for as long as I can remember as well, and constipation can sometimes follow one. Idk if it’s worth mentioning, but I also took a Plan B pill while on the trip too.
I babysit pretty frequently, and the boy I watch had a stomach virus around the same time as I’ve had my issues. He ended up going to the ER while I was on my trip due to dehydration. I watched him before going on my trip, so I could have potentially caught something from him.
Lately, I’ve been fine mentally, so no panic attacks, and I’ve been feeling relatively okay besides the stomach pain, diarrhea, and nausea. Right now I just want to get better, and idk what route to take. I have no idea what’s causing this, so I’m not sure how to treat it. My mom is a nurse, and she recommends I take a lot of miralax “until it runs clear” to try and “flush it out”, and she believes I’m constipated. Is this a good idea? I took 2 capfuls of Miralax a few days ago (not all at once), and it didn’t really make a difference and I’m still having diarrhea. We have pepto but I’ve yet to take any in case constipation is the problem.
Any advice is appreciated, and thanks in advance! Do you think this is caused by a stomach virus, constipation, or maybe just stress? The Plan B pill maybe? How should I treat it? Right now I’m only drinking lots of water and eating very bland foods. Should I continue that and just let it run it’s course?

It's a good show. There is beautiful art and animation, the music is fantastic, and the designs for characters and monsters are great.
But I'm just not a fan of many of the writing decisions. Apart from Luz's insecurities and Belos' backstory, it was hard connecting to the characters and the Boiling Isles. To me. the magic system was poorly written. Gaps were missing in character development. Most antagonists were incompetent so it was impossible to take them or the worldbuilding seriously. And I don’t think all of these issues can be blamed on the Great Shortening. They were present in Seasons 1 and 2A.
But honestly, the finale got me feeling something. I was tearing up during the credits. The issues I had were Belos’ death and the Collector’s redemption. Belos’ death was fitting, but I wish it was connected to the complexity behind his backstory. And considering the stubbornness of a mortal like Belos, I wish the Collector’s morality didn’t change so fast. I don’t think I’m a fan of Collector leaving the Isles. Though it was mature of him, so that’s nice. And I definitely have a lot of questions about the lore behind the Collectors and Titan Trappers, which admittedly does have me questioning why the crew left this lore in the final episodes.
But, I can tell these decisions were the result of Disney’s asinine decisions. Dana and her team were restricted and tried to make their best out of a bad decision, which I respect. Especially in the anti-creator sphere of network TV. Even though I’ve disagreed with many writing decisions in these specials and the show overall, I can tell a lot of love was put into The Owl House. 2/3 of these specials being great says a lot.
If there is any show that needed more polish, whether that be a lack of executive meddling, or making sure the lore and worldbuilding are consistent, it would be The Owl House. I look forward to looking back to this show, and seeing how it could’ve been better.
I wish Dana Terrace and every member luck in their future endeavors!

It’s a long story but in a nutshell, he’s treated me with disrespect and condescension the past 6.5 years of our 7 yrs together. Belittling, flirting with others in front of me, controlling, treating me as if his way of doing things, feeling, and thinking is better. I can’t begin to describe it. In short, it’s been 6.5 long years of narcissistic emotional and financial abuse and I finally had enough and got an apartment. Didn’t move in yet.
In the meantime, all these years I’ve begged him to go to therapy with me but he refused bc he felt we were too new for it, and then said it didn’t work with his exes and always signaled the end so I just went on my own since 2018. I went from a compliant headnodder to a stronger person who stands up for herself, which has led to a lot of fights. Because of the apartment, he finally decided to see someone. At first he insisted that we go together, but I said no bc I had begged for years and he denied my truth by not going and left it to be my problem. Now that he was going to lose me, he finally goes. I’m still going on my own and didn’t really want to start back at square one.
The problem is I’m not sure it matters anymore. He came home angry from his first session for some reason but told me the next day he is going to learn abt the things he does that cause me to react the way I do, and the things I do (!) that cause him to react. I’m not perfect AT ALL, but I came into this relationship with sincerity and the desire to grow with someone. I turned into a ghost of my former self when I felt I had no right to claim my space due to his incessant criticism, control, and correcting. Therapy is bringing me back — reviving me.
What made my stomach turn was he said the therapist suggested he read the Love Languages book, and he asked if I'd take the quiz. Problem is, I talked to him abt this in 2016 when i felt he wasn't engaging with me like he was the first few months, and I told him my love languages and did the quiz with him then. For years I've reminded him of my love languages and why X or Y would be nice, while trying to accommodate his. For him to talk about it now like it’s this new idea sickens me a bit bc i feel unheard once again and like this is something I've grown beyond. I feel bad even saying that.
He's been super kind all weekend and I feel guilty because I'm done at this point. I just feel very confused as to why he's not been able to be this way all along and feel invalidated that he only is trying this stuff now that he thinks it’s right. He’s done this temporary kindness thing thru out our time together when he’s done something upsetting, but what if this time he means it? Am I leaving a good thing?

A couple weeks ago I was looking through BadMtgCombos and came across a post that I now can't find involving the card [[Soulgorger Orgg]]. A 5 cmc 6/6 trampler with an ETB that has you lose all but 1 life and an LTB where you gain life equal to the life you lost when it ETB. For some reason I was immediately fascinated with trying to make it work in some way. The original post used [[Near-Death Experience]] and a flash enabler to win on the spot but I want to take it further. Using lifeloss reversing effects like [[Children of Korlis]] or [[Tainted Sigil]] we can actually gain life by playing the Orgg and sacrificing it to a free outlet. To multiply this outcome we can use [[Ephemerate]] effects to multiply the ETB and LTB. We can also directly duplicate the lifegain with [[Rhox Faithmender]] and [[Alhammarret's Archive]]. The final aspect of these interactions that I knew a way to take advantage of would be how drastically our life total is be changing, we can use payoffs like [[Willowdusk, Essence Seer]] to get a bunch of +1/+1 counters. If you know any other ways to leverage this strange effect or even some other cards that do the same stuff as the ones previously mentioned please let me know. Here is a link to the decklist so far https://www.moxfield.com/decks/umHJMOIbcEOCtCidlRgwg

Apologies for the ‘duplicate’. What’s your preferred method of smoking DMT? I know of the glass vapor genie, e mesh, etc. The machine stands out to me, however I want to drop $130 on the GVG. But is the machine perfectly reasonable as well, or is the quality difference outstanding? What type of lighter would I use, a butane torch, holding it a few inches out, or just a grill lighter to avoid burning the dmt? How do you do an inhale, 35mg in one long 20 second toke, holding for 20 seconds, or do you do like 2 tokes, 10 seconds, hold for 8 seconds? I really would avoid doing 3 tokes, it becomes impossible to do more as the world is breaking apart. Any great videos on how to vaporize it (aka a good explanation for newbs- sharing DMT with friends) would be amazing.

I am currently struggling to pay rent, as well as saving up in order to pay for my education (I'm at college, all self-funded) and top surgery. It's not as urgent as some of the other ones here, but I lost my dad a few months ago, which hasn't helped as he was helping me out as a guarantor on my rent when I couldn't make payments.
I have attached both the link to my gofundme and my ko-fi account. Anything is appreciated!
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Ok it’s time to sell this salty boy. $250 shipped OBO for the barrel assembly and handguard, +$10 for the QD end plate (also salty) and +$25 for the F5 mfg EBR v2 (it’s like a bad lever but it’s a single piece so bolt catch + lever).
Barrel still has life in it, rifling is fine and the gas port isn’t gaped. She needs a cleaning for sure, all the exterior tarnishing is cosmetic from being shot in a variety of conditions.
Parts list:
Midwest Industries G3M 15”
Ballistic Advantage 16” SPR profile barrel 223 Wylde (mid length gas)
CMMG or Midwest Industries gas block (can’t remember and seriously can’t tell the difference)
Dead Air Keymo Muzzle Brake (timed, torqued, and Rocksett into place)
Selling as a bundle because I can’t be fucked to pull it all apart.

The other day I wrote about how the market seemed to be at a pivotal point.
One of my strongest abilities in trading is identifying the exact day/week something major will happen. I tend to be wrong on the direction but the timing is right.
I grew my margin account 59% yesterday by positions I have in DPST and RETL. The positions were intended to be a bit of a hail mary, (of which I've made 2-3 that have failed), which seem to be working.
Yesterday; EQAL rose 2.45%, RSP rose 2.18%, IWM rose 3.62%.
This would be considered strong breadth after an extended period of sideways in nearly all of the assets listed. This suggests heavily that markets will more or less rally for a month or two, especially if these assets continue to demonstrate strength going into the following week.
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So which sectors saw the most buying?
- Regional Banks (KRE)
- Industrials (PRN)
- Small cap Energy (PSCE)
- HomeBuilders (XHB)
- Retail (XRT)
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The theme here is; Beaten down small cap. This, in my opinion is likely to be a recurring theme going forwards. Equal weighted, or small cap ETF's have been out of the limelight for over 5 years at this point, with this major breakout of a long term base it's very possible that Friday marked day one of a long term move for things like IWM.
This implies trading aggressively, if you were risking 0.5% of your account on trades due to the duration bearish market, gold & lumber ratio, low breadth, or whatever it may be wise to double or triple your risk tolerance until breadth slows down.

Me (31F) and my toddler (3M) have a little less than 60 days to find a new place to live, and I am a low income earner. I do not have security deposit money.
I fell 2 months behind on rent, and my landlord has decided not to renew my lease this August. I’ve lived here for 3 years.
Does anyone have experience with rapid rehousing programs? I plan to go to social services on Monday. I have read about security deposit assistance programs, but has anyone actually had any luck with those? I am hoping that we can find a place, and I’m riddled with anxiety.
Thank you

From socialism
There are certain facets we should expect from socialism. I see the State, not as a monolith, but as a site of class struggle between capitalists and proletarians. Once the working class becomes, en masse, a class for itself, it will substantially win that class struggle over the State and with that usher in socialism by eliminating class antagonisms, class distinctions, as well as amputating the repressive apparatuses, and thus transform the State (an instrument for the oppression by a ruling class) into a socialist Commonwealth (government subordinated to the needs and concern of society).
Among the facets I view as important are:

1. smashing / amputating the repressive forces of the military and bureaucracy—replacing standing mercenary armies and mercenary police with a Militia, self-service and community self-service government based in web APIs with programming code faithfully implementing statute code, fundamental rights genuinely enjoyed universally and not as mere façade (rights is the accused, rights of the convicted/sentenced, Militia rights, non-common/non-public sphere rights).
2. a democratic republic that stewards, operates, and acts as the proprietor for our common wealth (common resources such as common facilities and common services) in a distributed manner (global, nation-state, province/state, county, municipality, commune)
3. workers in control of the means of production, through cooperative enterprise, a.k.a. communist enterprise (where the enterprise is directed democratically, one-worker-one-vote instead of with the capitalist plutocratic enterprise with one-dollar-in-wealth-one-vote)
4. all rents—the revenues from selling natural resources—accrues solely to the public treasury for distribution equality as aN Unconditional Universal Basic Income (UUBI) social dividend
5. the implementation of Pigouvian subsidies and fees (from Fabian socialist Alfred Pigou from which the name derives) and usage fees for other common services that warrant neither subsidy (positive externality resources) nor excise (negative externality resources)
6. a heavily graduated progressive income tax to fund any remaining positive externality resource subsidies beyond the revenues available from excising negative externality resources (mostly needed for arming the Militia and for withering away criminal Justice mechanisms)
7. Facilitating the formation of residential communes with direct democracy town halls in our small scale and low population neighborhoods—facilitating also greater direct-production-consumption opportunities than we can achieve in our households

I focus on the US mostly and so I have insufficient knowledge of the intricacies of actually existing socialist countries to adequately evaluate them against this list of facets. In broad strokes though, many actually existing socialist nation-states accomplish facet item (2): even the Nordic nations and other European nations do fairly well on that front. As you say China has done very well on facet item (2).
The Nordic nations and Western European nations excel on item (1) beyond most of the overtly named socialist nations, but they often flounder in trying to ill-advisedly conform to US draconian demands (surrounding drugs and other Vice laws), though Portugal, ruled by a coalition of communist, socialist, and green parties, is in the vanguard in eliminating these Vice laws (these laws are used for entirely repressive purposes and do not belong in a republic). We see Nicaragua backsliding on personal rights by outlawing abortion. China deploys a collective punishment of Uighers prostrating itself to Global capitalists and the US capitalists who demand repression of Muslims by every nation-state.
Cuba has eliminated the death penalty since the early 2000s and compare very favorably with the rogue and repressive Guantánamo Bay human rights desert run by the US on what is supposed to be Cuban territory. Cuba also has a Militia but my understanding is that it is not as robust as we should expect within socialism.
Most all fail to universalize cooperative enterprise (with exceptions only for prudent carve outs for common resource socialist enterprise such as transport networks, insurance risk pools, money-payments and general credit, a common marketplace or allocation system otherwise, general applied research projects, and manufacturing the non-fungible resources needed by government by buying fully fungible resources from fair and equal auctions). This is the condition for the very control of means of production by workers.
Any other details regarding natural resource rents, Pigouvian subsidies and fees, and heavily graduated progressive income taxes are beyond my knowledge for the actually existing socialist nation-states (whether they proudly claim the socialist moniker or not).

So I wanna know if I’m just being selfish or what. So my boyfriend lives in a house and has to park on the residential street. I live in an apartment building and have an assigned parking space that me and my mother have to share. My mother has a handicap place card and we have handicap parking in our building so usually whoever getting home first for the night has to park in the handicap so that whoever comes home last can have a space and park in the assigned space. Mind you the handicap parking is not an assigned space so anyone can park there as long they had a handicap place card. My mom doesn’t go out late so if I’m home first I’ll park in the handicap and then when she gets home I’ll move my car and she will park there so that I can park in our assigned space when I get home. My boyfriend was picking me up and dropping me off when we first got together now he is starting to want me to drive to him and save his parking space while we are out in his car and then when we come back late at night usually 11:30pm-12:30am I have to drive back home in my car and park in my assigned space. My whole point of this is, i don’t feel like i should be driving home late at night after being with my boyfriend just to save his spot in front of his house even though I come home to a parking space. Am I being selfish or should he be picking me up and dropping me off when we are taking his car.