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2016.01.04 16:18 Excuse_my_GRAMMER Discussion of NYC affordable housing lottery

A place to have discussion and/for to give advise and tips on the NYC affordable housing lottery

2014.09.18 22:44 obsoletest NYCrail: Rail transportation in and related to New York City

Passenger and freight rail and trains, including transit, in and related to New York City.

2023.05.30 22:28 BondageKitty37 Transitioning will never be an option and it's getting harder to live like this

Pretty simple, I'm a man who wants to be a woman but it will never happen. It's just not financially possible, I don't have the skills to start making a good living wage, and I'm way too tired to start learning them now.
Even if I somehow win the lottery and have all the money I could ever need, it still won't happen. I know the end result would just make me feel worse because my face and body would make it obvious what I actually am. I would still see the man I hate most in the world staring back at me in the mirror.
I can't keep living like this. I'll never be ok with myself, never comfortable in my own skin. My depression and anxiety just keep getting worse all the time. I haven't felt ok in almost 20 years, and I'm so fucking tired
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2023.05.30 21:39 Slusho64 Anywhere to get Montreal style bagels here?

I just found out how different Montreal-style bagels are from NYC bagels and I'm wondering if there's any place that makes them like that in NYC. Google didn't return any results.
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2023.05.30 19:50 Logseman Two women had a meet cute at the voting polls, may end up in an LDR

Some context first: last Sunday there were local elections in Spain. For every election day, as customary in many places, there is a lottery to select random residents of each town in order to make sure that elections go right at every poll, and also to verify the results afterwards.
This is done in groups of three for each poll, and I happened to hear about this from a relative who was the third person on the poll.
It’s mandatory to attend if you’re summoned, and you get paid, but it’s very little money for the hassle. Folks try their best to avoid getting drafted for this, but these women I heard about found out too late and had little choice.
Why? Because both have lived abroad for years (in different countries), but hadn’t bothered to register as residents of their new towns so they were still on the lottery for the poll draft.
Apparently they had never met before, which is surprising because the city they both hail from is kinda small, but they were taken with each other immediately. At 9 am the women were strangers, but by the time my relative and they had to go take the votes to the court offices in the late evening they were apparently making plans on meeting again.
I just found it heartwarming so I wanted to share with ye lot.
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2023.05.30 19:34 Thatactressn Need recommendations

I am looking to get a couple piercings holes closed on my face. I'm an actress and my face is very important to me so I am hoping to get some recommendations for surgeons you trust in NYC and surrounding areas! (If accessable by train too)
I know scars will happen and I don't mind getting them lasered after healing but I need the best result possible so I can work in between laser and procedure.
Also on a small budget but I don't want cheap.
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2023.05.30 19:06 CSmith89 A fire broke out at a cluttered residence in NYC, resulting in serious injuries for an elderly father and his son

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2023.05.30 18:19 HokageEzio A great reminder on the various dreams of the Straw Hats, and some very solid anime filler content with an ever increasing production quality - Manga reader's first impressions on the anime - Zou Saga

A great reminder on the various dreams of the Straw Hats, and some very solid anime filler content with an ever increasing production quality - Manga reader's first impressions on the anime - Zou Saga


I occasionally see the criticism pop up that since the timeskip, many of the Straw Hats dreams have gone somewhat underdeveloped unless it is one of the ones that is constantly developed every arc (Luffy becoming Pirate King, Zoro becoming the World's Strongest Swordsman, etc.). I feel like the Zou Arc really fights back against that criticism. Even while being the least controversial post time skip arc (and an arc that was always beloved since it came out), I feel like it's still a little underappreciated how many great endgame Straw Hat moments were had in this arc in reference to the development of their dreams. I also think the uptick of the anime's quality continues to show itself more and more, with great anime filler and an even better movie in Film: Gold.

Zou Saga


I've been reading the manga weekly since Zou, but I've been trying to watch every piece of animated One Piece content before catching up to see how the anime has developed over time. My interest in how the current anime is being used and incorporating a bunch of stuff that isn't in the manga with a much higher quality level made me want to watch weekly, but I didn't want to just jump into the current anime. So I'm watching everything; movies, filler, specials, basically anything that's on MyAnimeList and that I can find online. Been an enjoyable experience, which you can read about in the previous threads:
Very quick watch for Zou, but some solid content there.
Also if anybody is curious why this is only about Zou it's because I'm using the official list from Library of Ohara based on Shueisha's official breakdown. I like this breakout more because stuff like the Reverie gets included in one big Whole Cake Island arc with the countries coming together at the beginning and meeting at the end, which makes sense to me (similar to how the in between Acts in Wano are still part of the arc). As well as other various reasons.
Also this post would have approximately 900 entries if Zou, Whole Cake, and Wano were together. Cool? Cool.

Anime Arcs

Silver Mine

Bartolomeo living the dream getting a filler arc with his idol
Apparently every filler villain in this series wants to be Akainu. This time it's smelting powers instead of heat, but with the same results. There was nothing incredibly bad in this arc, but I legit forgot plot points of it after a few episodes. Zoro brought up that he wanted to get revenge for something, and if they didn't throw in the flashback of the thing he was mad about from the first episode I would have been completely lost. And that's about the level of quality in this whole arc. Still not the worst arc cause Bartolomeo was really fun, but stuff with him was the only real saving grace imo.

Again, love the ever growing relationship between Luffy and Lil Bro Momo
I've always been a big fan of Zou. It really feels like the entire story gets expanded for what will be the final stages, and there's a lot of big reveals as far as what the hell is next to come. That's not news though, I feel like Zou has always been the least controversial New World arc and everybody agrees it's pretty good. What stuck out to me going back through this is how many different Straw Hat dreams got some big moments, which I really liked. Chopper getting to save all the minks by making medicine was a nice moment for him, and I also really enjoyed him helping patch up Zunesha (more on that in a second). And Robin's excitement when presented with the Road Poneglyph and finding out what it meant, just a really happy experience. It's the happiest I can remember her when finding a Poneglyph since she found the one in Skypiea that made her realize it's not a lost dream. And Nami asking Inuarashi about what the Log Pose is pointing to and getting that affirmation that she's leading them on the right path, super cute moment. I feel like a lot of people criticize some of the Straw Hats with this idea that their dreams aren't really talked about much since the time skip, but to me this arc was really covering a bunch of those moments for them in really satisfying ways. Yeah we don't physically see Nami draw a map or anything like that, but we do get Robin giving her readings from the Poneglyph that can lead her down that path. I just really enjoyed all the little moments leading them on their individual dreams, especially for the more abstract ones like Chopper where none of us know how he's actually going to pull it off.
I also really enjoyed the filler episode right near the end of this arc. I brought up getting to see Chopper healing Zunesha, that was mostly done in the filler episode I'm referring to. Just really good canon filler that plugged up a lot of gaps from the manga. Carrot bribing the monkey so she could sneak on the ship, the minks all helping to make bandages for Zunesha's leg, Nami getting the map for Totto Land. One of those filler episodes where if somebody didn't tell you it was filler you'd have no clue, it just fit in perfectly. I feel like most of the filler in this arc was really well fitting, other than them randomly fighting bees for half an episode one time. Like I've been saying since the end of Dressrosa, if they do more filler like this then I really don't have an issue with the page count. I think content matters more than the amount of pages covered, and this was for the most part really good content.
As far as the story itself, the setup for Wano was great. Love seeing Momo really come into his own; he's turned into a great character in Wano and it really started around this moment here when he allies with Luffy. And the Raizo is Safe moment was really good, loved the adaptation. The music in the moment sounded very Wano/Japanese themed, which fit the moment. And frankly all of the music in this arc was great. You can always tell when one of these 200+ episode animes just got a new OST, because you start hearing new music super often. But no complaints there.


One Piece: Heart of Gold

I swear this was integral to the plot. Don't fact check.
I just did not get into this one. The villain was pretty underwhelming (although I did like Zoro and Sanji's fights). And while I get it's filler so logic is somewhat out the window, the logic of this special goes super out the window. For example there's a part where Brook is needed to play the piano with very specific notes or he'll get shot with arrows. And he keeps messing up because there's a bit of the last page missing. And despite the fact that arrows pretty much do nothing to him, we instead get Robin and Chopper protecting him. Who for some reason are totally fine to use their Devil Fruits, which made me realize they're not even in Seastone cuffs but are for some reason just going along with everything. It took me until that point of the movie to even realize that. And I bring that up to talk about the next test they had, where they needed to use keys and had to find the right keyhole out of 17 (16 electrocute you, 1 doesn't). For some reason this is Nami's job, and Brook, Chopper, and Usopp have to hold the whole thing open so they don't get crushed. But if the electrocution doesn't kill you, and you're allowed to use devil fruits, why are they not using the person who can literally sprout clones and body parts? Obviously she'd still get hurt because she feels pain from the clones, but it makes way more sense than having almost half the crew crushed to death.
Again, it's a filler special episode so why am I even ranting about this. But stuff like that made me realize that the plot makes no sense and that it took me that long into the movie to realize it makes no sense. The CP0 stuff was kinda interesting albeit they make them kinda look like scrubs, the Celestial Dragon stuff was fine too. And Chopper continues his reign as the greatest plug in One Piece, because he apparently just carries around every drug necessary with zero prep time. Also whoever animated this did it with one hand down their pants when they drew the Nami and Robin stuff. So kudos to them.
Wasn't a bad special, just kinda boring.


One Piece Film: Gold

Nice to see Nami finally get to shine in a movie.
WOW. What an amazing movie. There were just so many things to love about this one. Where to start.
I'm always a fan of getting some unusual Straw Hat duos/trios. The usual groups are fun, don't get me wrong. But it's always nice to mix it up since they're such a big group. So having Franky running alone with Luffy for half the movie, I was a big fan of that. That's just not a usual pairing that happens, and the resulting dynamic from that was really cool.
I also enjoy when a movie villain doesn't feel unusually OP just for the sake of making the plot work, or like they're nerfing the main cast to make it a conflict. That's something that happens with a lot of shonen movies because they need the villain to be strong for an hour or so to make it work. When they revealed early into the movie that the gold confetti raining down actually makes it so Tesoro can control everything, I was in shock. It's a good plot device to neutralize the good guys that doesn't feel contrived, and it's also just really fucking smart. It immediately made Tesoro feel like a genuine threat.
And speaking of Tesoro, what a great villain. His backstory was crazy. The Celestial Dragon stuff is always a good way to get under the audience's skin, but the fact that he was a slave too and basically took the Sun Pirates approach of covering it? Huge surprise, not what I was expecting at all.
Also enjoyed Nami finally getting to fully participate in a movie. Her relationship with Carina was really cool, but the main thing that I liked was that she finally gets to play a big role in a movie. I wouldn't define her role in the last few movies as a damsel in distress. But it did kinda suck to see Nami taken out of the past few movies fairly early, where she doesn't get to play out a role like everybody else. Whether that's her being changed to a little kid or her getting kidnapped by Shiki in the first few minutes. This time Zoro gets to be the one separated from the crew, but you know Zoro will always get his moment eventually so it was fine. Again, just another really unique thing about this movie compared to the other ones.
This was just a really fun heist style movie, even with the typical planning montage. Very fun watch.


One Piece Film: Gold Episode 0

Speaking of animating with a hand down their pants, this was animated with the pen in their mouth. I guess these OVAs are all just going to be an excuse to show Nami and Robin half naked as many times as possible. In which case I say thank you. Also I knew Nami and Robin ran an elaborate gambling ring on the ship, I called that.
Fun short little video leading into the movie, like the Glorious Island one. We've upgraded from swimming to having the girls bouncing around playing volleyball. I look forward to the next one where they mud wrestle.


Oishi-sa Hajikeru! One Piece

MyAnimeList needs some quality control on these entries.
0/10, Franky didn't make a commercial about soda.
Scratch x One Piece Film: Gold
The face of the VAs when they saw how many 0's were at the end of their check.

Amazing. Inspiring. The lottery tickets really spoke to my heart.
One Piece Film: Gold - Cine Mike Popcorn Kokuchi

Again about that quality control.
Amazing. Inpsiring. The popcorn really spoke to my heart.
TOHO Cinemas x One Piece Film: Gold - Tokubetsu Eizou

Actually cool artwork.
Actually a really well animated video for what is essentially just a company logo promo. Very cool art.

One Piece Arc Rankings

  1. Enies Lobby
  2. Water 7
  3. Dressrosa
  4. Marineford
  5. Fishman Island
  6. Post War
  7. Sabaody Archipelago
  8. Impel Down
  9. Post-Enies Lobby
  10. Thriller Bark
  11. Alabasta
  12. Arlong Park
  13. Zou
  14. Jaya
  15. Loguetown
  16. Amazon Lily
  17. Baratie
  18. Return to Sabaody
  19. Punk Hazard
  20. Drum Island
  21. G-8
  22. Shells Town
  23. Foosha Village
  24. Skypiea
  25. Syrup Village
  26. Orange Town
  27. Little Garden
  28. Rare Animal Island
  29. Post-Alabasta
  30. Spa Island
  31. Ice Hunter
  32. Reverse Mountain
  33. Long Ring Long Land
  34. Foxy's Return
  35. Boss Luffy Historical Arc
  36. Chopperman
  37. Ocean's Dream
  38. Goat Island (Alvida's Hideout)
  39. Whisky Peak
  40. Goat Island Paradise
  41. Little East Blue
  42. Toriko Crossovers
  43. Silver Mine
  44. Caesar Retrieval
  45. Warship Island
  46. Z's Ambition
  47. Ruluka Island

One Piece Villain Rankings

  1. Doflamingo
  2. Akainu
  3. Rob Lucci
  4. Crocodile
  5. Arlong
  6. Gild Tesoro (Film: Gold)
  7. Zephyr (Film Z)
  8. Magellan
  9. Enel
  10. Sengoku
  11. Spandam
  12. Hody Jones
  13. Gecko Moria
  14. Caesar Clown
  15. St. Charlos
  16. Don Krieg
  17. Shiki (Strong World)
  18. Kuro
  19. Bellamy
  20. Boa Hancock
  21. Jonathan (G-8)
  22. Smoker
  23. Jack
  24. Buggy
  25. Omatsuri (Baron Omatsuri)
  26. Byrnndi World (3D2Y)
  27. Bluejam
  28. Captain Morgan
  29. Wapol
  30. Demaro Black
  31. Don Accino (Ice Hunter)
  32. Mr. 3
  33. Gasparde (Dead End Adventure)
  34. Higuma
  35. Alvida
  36. Mr. 5
  37. Mr. 9 and Miss Wednesday
  38. Foxy
  39. Saga (Cursed Holy Sword)
  40. Komei (Adventure of Nebulandia)
  41. Noko (Ocean's Dream)
  42. Ganzack (Defeat the Pirate Ganzack)
  43. Eric (Warship Island)
  44. Captain Joke (Ocean's Navel)
  45. Gally (Romance Dawn Story)
  46. Kibagaeru (Foxy's Return)
  47. Minchey (Goat Island)
  48. Eldoraggo (One Piece: The Movie)
  49. Ratchet (Giant Mechanical Soldier of Karakuri Castle)
  50. Bear King (Clockwork Island Adventure)
  51. Count Battler (Island of Strange Animals)
  52. Bilic (Episode of Luffy)
  53. Bill (Silver Mine)
  54. Breed (Caesar Retrieval)
  55. Shuzo (Z's Ambition)
  56. Wetton (Ruluka Island)
  57. Bayan (A Father's Huge, HUGE Dream)
  58. Mad Treasure (Heart of Gold)
  59. Largo (Little East Blue)
  60. Doran (Spa Island)
  61. Marine Commanding Officer (Straw Hat Chase)
  62. Trap (Trap Coaster)
  63. Governor (Last Great Performance)

One Piece Movie Rankings

  1. Film: Gold (Movie 13)
  2. Film Z (Movie 12)
  3. Strong World (Movie 10)
  4. Episode of Chopper Plus: Bloom in Winter, Miracle Sakura (Movie 9)
  5. Baron Omatsuri and the Secret Island (Movie 6)
  6. Dead End Adventure (Movie 4)
  7. Episode of Alabasta: The Desert Princess and the Pirates (Movie 8)
  8. One Piece: The Movie (Movie 1)
  9. Straw Hat Chase (Movie 11)
  10. The Cursed Holy Sword (Movie 5)
  11. The Giant Mechanical Soldier of Karakuri Castle (Movie 7)
  12. Clockwork Island Adventure (Movie 2)
  13. Chopper's Kingdom on the Island of Strange Animals (Movie 3)

Specials Rankings

  1. Episode of Sabo: The Three Brothers' Bond - The Miraculous Reunion and the Inherited Will
  2. Episode of Merry: The Tale of One More Friend
  3. Episode of Nami: Tears of a Navigator and the Bonds of Friends
  4. Episode of Luffy: Adventure on Hand Island
  5. 3D2Y
  6. One Piece: Protect! The Last Great Performance
  7. Adventure of Nebulandia
  8. Once Upon the Great Sea! A Father's Huge, HUGE Dream!
  9. One Piece Special: Adventure in the Ocean's Navel
  10. Episode of Alabasta - Prologue
  11. Heart of Gold
  12. One Piece New Year Special: Special Report - Secret of the Straw Hat Pirates
  13. One Piece Special: The Detective Memoirs of Chief Straw Hat Luffy
  14. One Piece: Emergency Planning, A Perfect Strategy for the One Piece

OVA Rankings

  1. Strong World: Episode 0
  2. Glorious Island
  3. Film: Gold Episode 0
  4. Romance Dawn Story
  5. Infiltrate!! Thousand Sunny
  6. One Piece: Defeat the Pirate Ganzack!
  7. One Piece Recap 2: One Piece 10+ Years Special

Shorts Rankings

  1. Dream Soccer King
  2. Jango's Dance Carnival
  3. Trap Coaster
  4. Take Aim! The Pirate Baseball King


  1. Cry Heart


  1. Share the World (11)
  2. We Are! (1)
  3. One Day (13)
  4. Hard Knock Days (18)
  5. We Go! (15)
  6. Brand New World (6)
  7. Fight Together (14)
  8. We Are! (2008 Remix) (10)
  9. Bon Voyage (4)
  10. We Are! (Straw Hat Version) (7)
  11. Hands Up (16)
  12. Wake Up! (17)
  13. Crazy Rainbow (7)
  14. Jungle P (8)
  15. Hikari e (3)
  16. We Can! (19)
  17. Kokoro no Chizu (5)
  18. Believe (2)
  19. Kaze wo Sagashite (12)


  1. Shouchi no Suke (4 - crew spotlight)
  2. Tsuki no Taiyo (12 - family left behind)
  3. Free Will (9 - Robin wakes crew)
  4. Glory - Kimi ga Iru Kara (7 - Vivi's past)
  5. Eternal Pose (15 - Past arc snapshots)
  6. Dear Friends (16 - Merry memories/funeral)
  7. Asu wa Kuru Kara (17 - young Robin in flower field)
  8. Before Dawn (5 - foot crew race)
  9. Memories (1 - Sunset water)
  10. Fish (6 - Chopper's adventures)
  11. Dreamship (13 - group photo)
  12. Run! Run! Run! (2 - Young crew runs)
  13. Mirai Koukai (14 - different birds)
  14. Adventure World (18 - fan art)
  15. Faith (10 - colorful Straw Hats)
  16. Shining ray (8 - crew jumps off cliff)
  17. Watashi ga Iru Yo (3 - Going Merry life)
  18. A to Z (11 - Come back to your friends)
Cry Counter
  1. Vivi Goodbye
  2. Usopp vs Luffy
  3. Usopp apology
  4. Nami forgiving Jimbei
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2023.05.30 15:35 Budget_Handle8916 Yo I am the luckiest and unluckiest guy rn
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2023.05.30 15:30 AcroraL Culture Study (about animal bond) (18-40)

I am conducting a research for my dissertation to understand how your cultural upbringing may influence your bond with animals and experiencing their passing affects you. It'd be of great help if you could participate in my study. It would take only 10-15 minutes to complete this and all your information would be kept confidential. I could send you your results too if you'd like that.
(-) You must be between the ages of 18-40 years.
(-) You must not currently have diagnosed active psychiatric illness condition (e.g., Major Depressive Disorder, Schizophrenia, Anxiety Disorders, etc).
(-) You have experienced or witnessed an animal death in your lifetime so far and it was at least a year ago.
Please note:
All your information would be kept confidential. If you wish to withdraw at any point of time before submission, you can simply close the form. If you wish to withdraw after submission, you can message me and I would delete your record from the file.
Thank you! Ria Dutta MSc Clinical Psychology, National Forensic Sciences University, Gujarat.
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2023.05.30 15:18 emlanis Discover the Power of Secret VRF on Secret Network and Cosmos IBC

The latest upgrade, v1.9, of Secret Network brings a powerful addition: the Secret Verifiable Random Function (VRF). It is good to understand what this means for Secret and the wider Cosmos IBC ecosystem, as well as its diverse use cases.
Secret VRF enables the generation of truly random numbers on the blockchain, all while upholding security and usability. Gone are the days of relying on off-chain solutions that can be unreliable, centralized, costly, and hinder user experience. With Secret VRF, the verifiable random number generator resides directly on the blockchain, making it the go-to solution for dApps.
Use Cases of Secret VRF
DeFi: RNGs play an important role in DeFi protocols, determining validators, reward distributions, and interest rates for lending pools. With Secret VRF, fairness, and decentralization are safeguarded, at ease.
Gaming: Web3 dApps leverage RNGs for fair and unpredictable outcomes, such as dice rolls and card draws. Secret VRF ensures game results remain truly random and tamper-proof.
NFT Minting: RNGs are utilized to generate unique NFTs directly on the blockchain. This ensures that NFTs are distinct, non-consecutive, and immune to duplication.
Multi-Party Computation: RNGs are employed in multi-party computations, where multiple parties collaboratively compute a function over their inputs without revealing their individual inputs. Secret VRF guarantees fairness and impartiality, benefiting all involved parties.
Governance: Certain Web3 protocols employ RNGs to randomly select participants for decision-making processes or to establish the voting order. Secret VRF facilitates unbiased governance mechanisms.
Lotteries and Raffles: Web3-based lotteries and raffles rely on RNGs to select winners fairly and at random. This extends to various scenarios, including government-run municipal lotteries for school admissions and registrations.
Unlocking the Potential With Secret VRF, Secret Network, and the broader Cosmos IBC ecosystem empower dApps with truly random and secure operations. From DeFi and governance to gaming and lotteries, the applications are endless.
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2023.05.30 14:08 sailawaynyc Top Five Reasons Why You Should Plan Boat Wedding

Top Five Reasons Why You Should Plan Boat Wedding
A wedding should be an unforgettable experience for the happy couple. This means the wedding itself has to stand out. There are several opportunities to leave a lasting impression on wedding attendees. A boat hire is a fantastic option for making special memories. Therefore, whether you are a bride or groom planning a wedding, you should consider renting a boat. Several options exist, including the full ceremony or simply the reception aboard a boat. Having your wedding on boat charters NYC has several advantages. Among them are:
Get an unforgettable experience
You may be certain that your wedding will not be a "cookie-cutter" event if you choose a boat rental. A wedding aboard a boat will surely be an unforgettable experience for everyone involved. A wedding on a boat is sure to be memorable for all the right reasons, especially compared to the typical venues of gardens and banquet halls.
Arrange a spectacular event
A boat wedding NY should not only be remarkable but also striking. Boats have long been seen as symbols of luxury and wealth. Therefore, a boat charter is a way to go if you want your wedding to have an air of luxury and splendor. It's a stunning spectacle in and of itself.
Guest numbers are easy to manage
When they find out that your wedding will take place on a boat, guests thinking of showing up uninvited to your celebration may rethink their decision to do so. You'll be able to spend more quality time with each visitor if you keep the guest list small, so these gatherings lend themselves well to being more personal.
Comprehensive Packages Available
Many boat charters NYC have full wedding packages that include everything from a planner to the food and drink to the cake and tableware. Some even have a DJ on staff and a disco ball in the lounge. The Captain is often a legally ordained minister as well. The Maitre d', bartenders, marine crew, and service personnel are all highly qualified professionals, so you can take it easy and enjoy your day.
Minimize expenses
This is an inevitable result because of the intimate nature of a boat wedding NY. Catering expenses, for example, may be kept to a minimum when fewer people feed. While most people think of large costs when they hear the term boat wedding, it is possible to save money by hiring a boat rental for your wedding.
Avail the advantages of mobility
A boat can move in different directions. Because of this, one portion of the wedding ceremony on a boat may occur in one location, while the other portion of the ceremony takes place in another location, all while the guests remain in luxury during the whole event. You may take beautiful wedding photographs by traveling to scenic locales.
Take outdoor wedding vows
Getting married on the sea is a visual treat because of the magnificent port, coastline, and skyline vistas, not to mention the chance of a spectacular sunset. The images from your wedding will turn out beautifully, and your guests will remember the breathtaking scenery for a long time. If you plan it correctly, you can serve beverages to your delighted visitors as the sun goes down during the legendary golden hour.
Having your wedding on lavish boat charters NYC are a great way to make it more special. Even though there are rules and regulations to follow, the location makes the event special. If you're planning your wedding, a reputable event planning company can provide a waterside location and use their refurbished antique boat.
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2023.05.30 13:03 FelicitySmoak_ On This Day In Michael Jackson HIStory - May 30th

On This Day In Michael Jackson HIStory - May 30th
1970 - "The Love You Save" by the Jackson 5 enters the Billboard US Hot 100 singles chart at #45. In late June, will peak at #1 & stay there for 2 weeks
1971 - The Jackson 5 play at the Fairgrounds Arena (now Jim Norick Arena) in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma on their 2nd national tour
1977 - The Jacksons perform “Keep On Dancing” on Numéro Un Joe Dassin taped at the Buttes-Chaumont Studios in Paris, France while on their European tour. It would air on July 2nd
1979 - On their Destiny Tour, The Jacksons play the Jim Norick Arena in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
1987 - The Los Angeles Times reports that Michael has submitted an official bid, for an undisclosed sum, for the remains of the late John Merrick, known as the Elephant Man, from the London Hospital Medical College which has kept them since Merrick’s death in 1890.
Michael's manager, Frank DiLeo, commented “Jackson has no exploitative intentions whatsoever and cares about and is concerned with the Elephant Man as a dedicated and devoted collector of art and antiques"
Also adding that Michael "has a high degree of respect for the memory of Merrick"
1992 - "In The Closet" peaked at #6 during it's 5th week on the Billboard chart. It would stay in the Top 40 for 11 weeks
1997 - HIStory tour rehearsals in Bremen, Germany
2000 - Dangerous (album) is certified 7X platinum by the RIAA.
2000 - Michael announces that he has become a key partner & investor in, a promotional and marketing site that gives netizens the chance to win backstage passes to concerts & visits to film/tv show shoots. The amount he invested was not disclosed but it's understood to be in the millions
2003 - Michael attends a party at Robert Evan's house to celebrate Brett Ratner's Hillhaven Lodge: The Photo Book Pictures book launch. Brett Ratner is the director of Rush Hour. Later that same night, Michael shows up at a MTV Movie Awards post party at Ron Burkle's Beverly Hills Mansion where he meets Puff Daddy and Paris Hilton among others.
2005 - No court today due to the Memorial Day holiday
2006 - Michael Jackson takes his kids and his nanny Grace to Tokyo Disneyland.
2007 - A collection of almost 2000 Jackson family items dating from the mid-1960's to the early '90's goes to auction in the Hard Rock Cafe in Las Vegas.
These are items from a storage warehouse that Henry Vaccaro came in to possession of after a failed business venture ended up in bankruptcy court. Items include Michael's gold record for Thriller, handwritten "ABC" lyrics & a signed Victory tour program
2013 - Jackson v AEG Trial Day 20
Katherine and Rebbie Jackson are in court.
The court also heard an update on efforts to get emails and any other records from a computer used by Michael's former manager, Frank Dileo. Apparently an LA attorney has a copy of Dileo's computer hard drive. Attorneys are working to get a copy of the HD to both sides. The copy was revealed during a deposition of Dileo's widow earlier this week in Pennsylvania, plaintiff's attorney Brian Panish said
Paul Gongaware Testimony
Jackson direct
Gongaware said he met with his attorneys again yesterday to refresh his recollection
Panish asked if AEG was concerned about Mr. Jackson's health. "When he was sick we obviously had a concern," Gongaware responded. Gongaware said he understood Michael was sick from reading the chain of emails shown yesterday. But Gongaware told the jury he didn't have any particular concern about Michael Jackson other than on June 19th, no one told Gongaware about being concerned with his health. Gongaware testified that he disagreed with Houghdahl's opinion, saying he had no "particular concern" about Jackson's health and ability to perform
Talking about the email Hougdahl sent saying Michael was deteriorating quickly, Gongaware explained: "I didn't see it the way he saw."
Hougdahl, in response to concerns expressed by Travis Payne about Jackson's weight Email 6/15/09 from Hougdahl to Gongaware :
He needs some cheeseburgers with a bunch of Wisconsin cheesehead bowlers and a couple of brats and beers
"Was he joking around about this situation?" Panish asked Gongaware, referring to Hougdahl. "I think he was," Gongaware replied. "Did you think that was funny?" Panish asked. "I did," Gongaware admitted
Panish asked about indemnity in Gongaware's contract. The exec said indemnity means that someone else is taking on the responsibility. "I haven't read my contract in 12/13 years, I don't know what it says," Gongaware said. Gongaware said he does not know how many pages his employment agreement is. Panish asked if he AEG would cover for Gongaware should they be found guilty. Gongaware said it was his understanding that he wouldn't be personally responsible financially if the jury sided with Jackson family.
Panish: "That means if you did something wrong..."
Gongaware: "They would be responsible. I've been assuming that,"
Adding that depending upon the size of the judgment, AEG could go after him. Panish asked how much AEG would be able to afford, and Gongaware said he didn't know. Panish emphasized there are various ways for AEG to pay a judgment, and Gongaware mentioned they had some sort of cancellation insurance.
Panish went back to discuss the email from Randy Phillips where he wrote 'Dr. Murray didn't need the gig and was unbiased and ethical'
Panish: "Is Mr. Phillips unbiased and ethical, sir?"
Gongaware: "I think he is"
Panish asked if it was ethical for Phillips to represent to Ortega that the doctor is 'extremely successful' and 'we checked everyone out'. Gongaware responded that he didn't know what Phillips knew at the time.
Panish: "Is number one priority 'the show must go on'?"
Gongaware: "I don't know if that's number one"
Panish: "What's number one?"
Gongaware: "Getting it right"
Panish showed the email from John Branca, saying he had the right therapist for Michael and asked if substance abuse was involved. "This is referring to the meeting that was going to happen and I was waiting to see the results of it," Gongaware said. "I didn't believe there was a substance abuse issue," Gongaware testified. "In the entire time I was dealing with him in this tour, I saw it once when he came back from his doctor," Gongaware testified. Gongaware said that was the only time he saw Michael with slurred speech and under the influence of something. Gongaware said he didn't know what Dr. Klein was giving Michael Jackson. When Panish asked Gongaware if he checked Dr. Klein out, he replied: "No, he was Michael's doctor and it was none of my business."
Gongaware said he once observed Michael looking "slow" and possibly intoxicated after a visit to his dermatologist but he didn't believe he had any "serious health problems" even after Jackson appeared weak and disoriented at a June 19 rehearsal. "My observation of Michael Jackson was that he was healthy," Gongaware said. "They had a meeting to discuss (the June 19 incident), and he took a couple days off and he came back strong"
As to insurance issues, Gongaware said he was involved only peripherally. On June 25, Gongaware sent an email saying that if they didn't get sickness coverage in the insurance, they would be dropping the policy. Gongaware said he didn't know why he was pressing for sickness insurance on the day Michael died. Bob Taylor, the insurance broker, wrote back that it was always down to the medical issued from the word go. Regarding Randy Phillips asking for life insurance the day Michael died, Gongaware said he didn't pay much attention to insurance, didn't recall.
The day Michael died, Gongaware said Phillips called him and told him to get over to the house right away, there seems to be a problem. Randy followed the ambulance to UCLA. "The second call was that he informed me that he had died," Gongaware remembered. On June 25, Gongaware said he went to the rehearsal at the Staples Center and talked to Kenny Ortega.
Panish: "Were you sad Mr. Jackson died?"
Gongaware: "Very much so"
"He was a business associate", Gongaware said about Michael. They did not didn't hang out as friends
Panish asked about Phillips' email directing Gongaware to remove thin, skeletal footage of Michael in the red jacket from This Is It documentary. Gongaware testified that he remembered receiving the email. In his deposition played in court, Gongaware said he didn't recall the email.
Panish: "Did you change your testimony?"
Gongaware: "No. I saw the email as part of my preparation"
AEG Live president and co-chief executive Randy Phillips wrote in Aug. 9 email:
Make sure we take out the shots of Michael in that red leather jacket at the sound stage where the mini-movies were being filmed. He looks way too think (sic) and skeletal
Gongaware replied to Phillips, his boss:
ok will have a look when it comes on screen
Gongaware said he didn't try to control any of the messages about Michael after his death to reflect he was fully engaged in rehearsals. Panish asked about an email from Gongaware okay'ing the band, singers and dancer to give interviews but asked them to keep it positive
In another email July 9, 2009, email to music coordinator JoAnn Tominaga, Gongaware wrote:
We are ok with the band, singers and dancers doing interviews now. The only thing we ask is that they keep it positive and stress that Michael was active, engaged and not the emaciated person some want to paint him as being.
Answering questions from Jackson family attorney Brian Panish, Gongaware said he was not trying to control the film's message.
Panish: "You're telling them what not to say, aren't you sir?"
Gongaware. "I'm asking them to keep it positive and not say he was emaciated"
Panish: "So you were controlling the message as a producer of that documentary"
Gongaware: "I don't think so"
Gongaware's testimony again emphasized the contrast between the answers he gave during his deposition under oath in December 2012 and his responses in the courtroom. In testimony, he agreed that Phillips meant "thin" in his email, instead of the word he typed, 'think'. Asked during the deposition what Phillips meant, he replied, "I don't know what he meant"
Gongaware said nothing was taken out of the documentary, which included rehearsals for the scheduled 50 concerts in London. Gongaware promised in a follow-up email to Phillips that he'd "have a look," but he testified that he never dumped any footage. "We didn't keep anything out based on what Randy wrote," Gogaware told jurors. Gongaware testified that he did not know why Phillips would ask that.
Gongaware said there were 15,000 tickets per show, $1.5 million in tickets per show, $47 million for all 31 shows. Tickets were selling at lightening fast, Gongaware said. "As fast as the system can sell.". The tickets were sold in March, Gongaware said. It was held by the arena, AEG had control of the money. Gongaware said merchandising was another way of making money. The building, which is owned by AEG, would keep the revenue of beverage sold. Gongaware said the beverage money would offset the arena rent, which Michael would not have to pay.
Gongaware: "His (MJ) potential was great"
Panish: "Unlimited ceilings?"
Gongaware: "If he was willing to work that hard, he would've done well"
Before lunch, Panish asked Gongaware whether This Is It was intended to be a multi-city tour. Gongaware said no, it was just going to be the 50 shows at London's O2 arena. "The only thing we knew was 50 shows in London. Michael had not agreed to anything else," Gongaware explained
Panish asked Gongaware by the time the show was sold out, how many people were in the queue to buy tickets. "250,000 people were still in the queue, which would be enough to sell another 50 shows," Gongaware answered. During Murray's trial, Gongaware testified that 250k people still wanted tickets. He told that jury This Is It would be a multi-city tour.
Panish: "Did you tell the truth when you testified in this case, sir?"
Gongaware: "Yes"
Panish then concluded his questioning of Gongaware.
AEG cross
AEG's attorney, Marvin Putnam, did the questioning of Gongaware on behalf of the defendants.

Putnam: "Have you ever been sued personally for the wrongful death of anyone?"
Gongaware: "No"
Putnam: "How are you feeling?"
Gongaware: "It's difficult, it's very stressful"
Putnam: "Are you nervous?"
Gongaware: "Yes"
Putnam asked about Gongaware's memory and he said it's okay
Putnam asked Gongaware about some of the emails shown to jurors yesterday. Putnam was trying to show that not all the contents of the emails had been shown to jury. Some email addresses had been redacted. Attorney Brian Panish objected to the redactions, and got testy with the judge. It prompted another lengthy sidebar. When attorneys returned from the judge's chambers, Putnam resumed questioning Gongaware about emails sent to his private account
Putnam said Gongaware handed over more than 13,000 emails in discovery from the This Is It period
Putnam inquired about Gongaware's Kazoodi personal email account. On 6/20/09, the chain of emails with "Trouble at the Front" was sent there. Gongaware said he didn't remember receiving this email. Gongaware said he had more than one "Kazoodi" email account. He said he was not using the account the email was sent to on 6/20. "The account was closed at the time." Putnam presented Gongaware a document that indicated the private email account had been closed at the time. Gongaware said he never denied it was sent. Gongaware claimed yesterday was the first time he saw this chain of emails. Putnam used the closed email account to try to show Gongaware's testimony was truthful
Putnam: "Why could you not recall e-mails?"
Gongaware: "I had not reviewed them and had not seen them in years,"
Some of the e-mails were new to him because he was so busy putting Jackson's tour together that he never read them, he said. Gongaware said he was receiving hundreds of email a day at the height of 2008/09 tour preparation. "Mostly, it was just a time factor if it was something that didn't have to do with me"
Gongaware said he doesn't have an office at AEG, and that he works on his own projects. He has an office at his house. Gongaware is the Co-CEO of AEG Live Concerts West with John Meglen. He said he was the co-founder of the company. Phillips is AEG Live CEO
Gongaware explained be has been testifying about what he could recall. If he didn't remember, he said he told the jury he couldn't recall. Gongaware testified he looked at the emails after his deposition because he wanted to put everything together and see the bigger picture. Putnam: "Did you try to give your best testimony?" Gongaware: "Yes, I did"
Regarding the phone call between Gongaware and Dr. Murray where the doctor asked about $5 million, Gongaware said he remembers that call. The next call between the two, it was the $150,000 call, where Gongaware offered the doctor $150k. Gongaware said those were the only two calls he had with Dr. Murray
Gongaware said the 1st time he met Dr. Murray was a meeting at Michael's Carolwood house. He said MJ, Kenny, Randy, Frank & Dr Murray were present. Gongaware recalled the other meeting with Dr. Murray was an encounter with him at The Forum. He remembers saying hello to him. Gongaware said he's sure he didn't meet with Dr. Murray other than on those two occasions
Gongaware said he promoted couple of shows/dances in college. He graduated in '69 from Waynesboro College in Pennsylvania in Accounting. He worked for Arthur Andersen in NYC after college as auditor. He said one needed two years of experience in order to get CPA license.The company ended up shutting down after being involved in the Enron scandal, Gongaware explained. He said there's a continuing education requirement in order to maintain his CPA license, but he hasn't kept current. "I didn't like that work," Gongaware said about leaving the practice. "I wanted to do things and not just be an accountant." Gongaware said he ski bummed for a winter and would do bookkeeping to pay for his lodge.
His first big show was in Colorado -- he got The Grateful Dead to perform at Folsom Field in Boulder, Colo. He said he didn't know the band or any of its managers, but asked them to come to Colorado. They did, and the show was a hit. "The concert was sold out", Gongaware said, and he became an independent promoter. Around 1975, he met Terry Bassett who worked at Concerts West and Gongaware went to work for them in their Seattle office. He worked for them for about 10 years. Gongaware said he went to work for the company because the money was steady. At Concerts West, Gongaware worked with Bad Company, Led Zeppelin, Beach Boys, Chicago, Eric Clapton, among others. This Concerts West is not the same; he is the currently the co-CEO. Gongaware left Seattle and came to LA to work at Concerts West. He then went to Warner Miller Films. The company did primarily ski movies. Jerry Weintraub was Elvis' promoter and Concerts West assigned him to work with Colonel Parker, Elvis' manager.
Gongaware was in his 20s when he worked with Elvis. He said when they'd announce an Elvis concert, there would be lines at the box office for 4 days. Gongaware said Colonel would buy ads on every radio station and promote the show. When tickets went on sale, Gongaware was to report to Colonel every hour regarding the ticket sales.
Elvis Presley's death became a controversy at this trial as the man (Gongaware) who promoted both artists' last tours testified. He testified yesterday that Presley died of a drug overdose, but when his own lawyer questioned him today he changed his testimony to say Elvis died of a heart ailment. Presley collapsed in the bathroom of his Memphis, Tennessee, mansion, Graceland, on August 16, 1977, at the age of 42. While his death was ruled the result of an irregular heartbeat, the autopsy report was sealed amid accusations that abuse of prescription drugs caused the problem.How Presley died is relevant because Jackson lawyers argue Gongaware's experience as Elvis's promoter should have made him more aware of drug abuse by artists, including Michael Jackson.
Although he worked advance promotion on Elvis Presley's last tours -- under the direction of Presley manager Colonel Tom Parker -- Gongaware testified he never met Presley.
Putnam:"Did you understand he had a problem with drugs?"
Gongaware: "I understood that later. There was a period of time when we didn't work. I didn't understand at the time, but I learned that it was a drug problem and the Colonel said he couldn't work."
Around 1992, Gongaware went to work on the Dangerous tour with Michael. This was his first time working with Michael Jackson. He worked with the Jacksons in 2000 but he remembered working on a tour with the Jacksons prior to 92 and said Michael was part of the group. "I was the tour manager, handled the logistics and travel for the B party," Gongaware said, adding he worked for Michael but not for A party.
  • A party - artist
  • B party - band and administration
  • C party - crew
  • D party - documentary people.
    Gongaware said there were several legs on the Dangerous tour. It was a worldwide tour. He never met Michael on that tour, saw him on stage a few times
The first time Gongaware met Michael was in Las Vegas when he was visiting Colonel Parker. Steve Wynn's brother called and said Michael wanted to meet Colonel. Gongaware stayed and met him

Putnam: "Were there any doctors in that tour?"
Gongaware: "Yes, two"
Gongaware said Dr. Forecast was Michael's personal doctor. He didn't think Dr. Forecast treated anyone else, so they had Dr. Finkelstein also. Dr. Finkelstein, a general practitioner, was in the B party. They went to places where they didn't know the quality of local healthcare. Gongaware explained Dr. Finkelstein treated B, C and D parties. Gongaware said he did not see any doctor treat Michael. Dr. Finkelstein told Gongaware he treated Michael twice. Dr. Forecast wasn't in Bangkok yet, so Dr. Finkelstein treated him when he needed.
"The King of Thailand said Michael would have to do the second show because his friends were attending", Gongaware recalled.
Gongaware said the King put armed guards outside their doors to make sure they didn't leave

Putnam: "During the Dangerous tour, had you come to have an understating that Michael had a problem with drugs or painkillers?"
Gongaware: "No, he Dangerous tour in 93 was cut short in Mexico City"
Gongaware said. He learned it had to do with drug addiction because Michael announced it. Putnam played the audio with Michael's statement:
"My friends and doctors advised me to seek professional guidance immediately in order to eliminate what has become an addition. It is time for me to acknowledge my need for treatment"
On Jun 25, 2009 Gabriel Sutter (a tech guy) wrote Gongaware a condolences email. "It was such an incredible shock to go through that experience," Gongaware explained. Gongaware's response on July 5, 2009:
I was working on the Elvis tour when he died so I kind of knew what to expect
"You have all these people out of work," Gongaware explained. "With Elvis some were without jobs permanently." Under questioning from Putnam, Gongaware said he didn't mean that he expected Jackson to die like Elvis. He was referring to the trauma of people losing their jobs because a tour is canceled and the estate taking over the legacy, he said.
Putnam: "When you wrote the email, did you expect Michael to die?"
Gongaware: "No, not all"
Putnam: "Did you ever consider the idea Michael would die?"
Gongaware: "No"
Here's what Gongaware had to say about the role of the estate after Elvis died (and what he expected after Jackson's death.):
"Then the estate takes over, and everything's different. You have nothing to say about anything"
When one of his friends asked about his plans after Michael's death, Gongaware replied he was "trying to recover our losses from the show"
"Michael died of overdose of Propofol. He didn't die of being sick or malnutrition", Gongaware said. He said that he had no idea of what Propofol was. "I had no idea" Jackson was using propofol in the weeks before his death, Gongaware testified
Gongaware said he worked on Michael's memorial service. He was in charge of the tickets and worked closely with the family. He said he didn't charge for his work.
Putnam: "Why did you work at the memorial service?"
Gongaware: "It was the right thing to do"
Court Transcript
2017 - Michael Jackson: Searching For Neverland, starring Navi as Michael, premieres on the Lifetime channel in the US
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2023.05.30 09:32 AnyYogurtcloset9151 I made 5000 calls and set 1 meeting. SaaS SDR/BDR is BS proof

It is virtually impossible to be so bad at talking on a phone that you can't set a meeting in a couple thousand calls if your product is actually good and people are answering. However, both are unlikely.
That is because SaaS is aaSS. SaaS is a meme. Koolaiders talking about all the money in SaaS are 1 of 3:
•Those who haven't actually broken into the field yet
•Those just starting
•Lottery winners
Lottery winners are equivalent to shitcoin gamblers. They 2000xed. You won't.
You won't, because succeeding in these roles is possible at only a handful of companies in the perfect markets at the perfect times, and your results are dependent on your company.
No one actually cares about your personality on the phone. There aren't any magic questions or magic words that will change anything. You can control your volume of outreach, but that's merely a minimum threshold to succeed (as is targeting the correct prospects). It's meaningless if the outreach is ineffective. What makes it ineffective? It's certainly not pedantic nonsense like opening with "How are you?"
There is absolutely nothing you can do if you choose the wrong company. Good companies are the exception, and hard (read: nigh impossible) to break into.
This also means that when you're inevitably fired from the first shitty company, after 6 months of unemployment you're just going to land right back in another one.
I suggest learning math and coding.
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2023.05.30 07:30 sem263 Why does the TOPIK website suck so much, and can we pressure NIIED into fixing it?

I'm not even taking the test this time, but a bunch of my friends are, and they have been sitting in front of their computers since 7 AM with no luck at securing a spot. This has literally happened every single time there is an exam signup without fail for YEARS, and the fact that NIIED continues to do nothing about it is honestly baffling and infuriating.
TOPIK scores are mandatory for many people that live in Korea to maintain their visas, and NIIED's refusal to invest in adequate servers makes it borderline impossible for people to register in a reasonable time frame. Test-takers have to sit there in front of their browsers for an entire day, sometimes multiple days, just to get a spot at all, and many people I know have to travel 2+ hours or pay for a hotel to get to their test site on time because it's basically impossible to get a seat in Seoul without winning the TOPIK lottery. Some people wait all day and then are unable to register at all!
I've taken the HSK, multiple ALTA exams, OPIs, OPIcs, etc (all of which have FAR more test-takers and are also more resource-intensive in terms of computing power), and nothing comes even remotely close to how terrible the experience of signing up for the TOPIK is. For a country that is allegedly so technologically evolved, it's honestly shocking and infuriating that the experience is so bad.
My other qualms with the test:
Is there any way we could start a campaign to get NIIED to get their shit together so we can give them our money and take this exam they force us to take? I am dead serious lol
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2023.05.30 07:15 CAJ_2277 Free Speech ... Limited by the Left's Machete

One of the more dramatic anti-free speech episodes - two incidents by one left-winger, actually - deserves attention.
On May 2, a professor at a CUNY (City University of New York) campus in Manhattan screamed profane abuse at pro-life students who were manning a table offering pro-life literature. She then swept the literature off the student's table onto the ground.
On May 26, the professor put a machete to the throat of a reporter who wrote a story about the May 2 incident.
Media Bias Another aspect of this incredible left-wing harassment and threat of lethal violence is the way the MSM buried it. Google search results: - 'Shellyne Rodriguez machete': 35,200 results - 'Shellyne Rodriguez arrest': 25,000
By contrast: - A random racist, who attempted to riot at an LGBTQ parade last year, in a Utah county with 180,000 people (versus New York City's 8,400,000) recently pled guilty on child porn charges. A search for that (Jared Michael Boyce child porn) gets 962,000 google results. That's 30 TIMES the results of the professor's attack and machete-wielding in the nation's largest media market.
Media bias is perhaps the most serious danger to our democracy.
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2023.05.30 06:17 sem263 Can we please petition the TOPIK administrators to fix their freaking website already

I'm not even taking the test this time, but I'm so pissed that their website is STILL so broken after this many years of the exact same thing happening every time registration opens or scores are released.
TOPIK scores are mandatory for many people that live in Korea to maintain their visas, and NIIED's refusal to invest in adequate servers makes it borderline impossible for people to register in a reasonable time frame. Test-takers have to sit there in front of their browsers for an entire day, sometimes multiple days, just to get a spot at all, and many people I know have to travel 2+ hours to get to their test site because it's basically impossible to get a seat in Seoul without winning the TOPIK lottery. Some people wait all day and then are unable to register at all! Heaven forbid you're new to Korea (like 99% of language students) and don't have a Korean bank account yet - because if you are, you can get all the way to the front of the line just to find that your foreign card will not be accepted.
I've taken the HSK, multiple ALTA exams, OPIs, OPIcs, etc (all of which have FAR more test-takers and are also more resource-intensive), and nothing comes even remotely close to how terrible the experience of signing up for the TOPIK is. For a country that is allegedly so technologically evolved, it's honestly shocking and infuriating that the experience is so bad.
Don't even get me started on the ridiculous fact that the timeline of registering, taking the test, and getting your scores can take between 2 and 4 months (registration for the October TOPIK opens on August 1 and results come out 121 days (more than 17 weeks) later on November 30!!). This is absolutely absurd in the year 2023...
Or the fact that the TOPIK exam is terrible at measuring what it is supposed to measure (practical Korean proficiency), that NIIED won't let us use pencils (or heaven forbid a keyboard!) to write the essays despite how difficult it is to write in marker over whiteout, that half the exam is a waste of time for anyone going for a level 3 or 6, and that question 54 is still seemingly a black box and no one, including Korean teachers, understands how it is graded....
Is there any way we could start a campaign to get NIIED to update their website so we can give them our money and take this exam they force us to take?
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2023.05.30 06:06 Master_Greggles So I guess I have a slight case of pancreatitis?

Me 31(m) 6'2 240lbs. So had some weird abdominal pains and went to the ER about 3 days later worried it was gallstones. After Labwork and a CT scan the doctor decided I have a slew of issues including gastritis very slight inflammation of the pancreas and the beginning of a fatty liver. He told me to quit smoking and to stop eating like a stoned teenager that just won the lottery, and that I need to exercise and get back in shape and apparently I'll be back to normal with everything in a couple months of the clean eating. Was in the hospital just long enough for results and they sent me home without pain pills and I didn't so much as take a nap in the hospital. I'm not morbidly obese or anything but I would probably feel much healthier if I lost 20-40 lbs. So I'm on a bland diet for the stomach deal. I'm just wondering what this ping of pain everyone is talking about on these posts. What's the sensation/location. If I gotta keep an eye out for a future episode it would help to know what I'm looking out for. Also I quit smoking. . . So far. And I've been eating super clean, traded in the pizza and burgers for chicken breast and salmon.
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2023.05.30 06:00 nomad_Henry Exploring the Advantages of Living in the UK versus the USA from an Immigrant's Perspective

I came to the UK as an international student and have been living here for almost 18 years now. I am now a naturalized citizen. I have worked in both the USA and the UK for several years. I started my own business in the UK, and it has been successful. However, my family attempted to build a furniture business in the USA 10 years ago, but unfortunately, it did not work out. On the other hand, my wife attended an Ivy League university and worked at Goldman Sachs at NYC for a few years. Although I genuinely love the USA and acknowledge that it offers unique opportunities, I would like to share some perspectives on immigrating to the UK and learn more about America as well.
TL;DR: The USA is advantageous for making money, while the UK offers a more stable and family-friendly lifestyle.
What does the UK do better than the USA?
What does the USA do better than the UK?
I have lived in many countries and no country is perfect. Each country offers different things and can be great depending on what you are looking for. I am in my late 30 now and I am looking to retire this year. I don't find living in the UK or US appealing, as both countries are money-sinking holes. I am moving to South East Asia for a more relaxed, basic and cheaper lifestyle.
For Americans looking to relocate, I would suggest Australia, it is a nicer version of UK. Better weather, better pay and high quality of living. My impression of Australia is America governed by a Westminister-style parliamentary political system.
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2023.05.30 05:47 mjn9457 Comprehensive Guide To Ticketing in Japan

Comprehensive Guide To Ticketing in Japan
(I apologize in advance for the visible links, I did not figure out how to hyperlink until after I posted and it will not let me edit them! ^^)
Hello everyone! I’ve noticed an uptick in the number of posts on the subreddit asking how to ticket in Japan, as Seventeen is having an increasing number of events and concerts here. I thought I’d make a comprehensive post about what you need to know about ticketing in Japan! This guide will cover concerts, fanmeetings, the Seventeen museum, the Seventeen Cafe, and pop-up shops. I will also tell you how to sign up for the memberships in Japan. Many of these use the same type of ticketing system. Here is the official Seventeen Japan site that every event is posted on, and they also have a Seventeen Japan Twitter that announces events and posts links when it is time to ticket.
I’ll start with these, because this is the most frequent post I see on this subreddit! In Japan, ticketing is done through a lottery system. Seventeen uses Lawson Ticket (ローチケット)and has for the past few years. There are multiple rounds of lottery, starting with the fanclub, then CaratMobile, then general sales. Both the fanclub and Carat Mobile have multiple draws, as you can see here on the most recent fanmeeting ticketing page.
The options, under ticketing, are as follows:
Fanclub Premium Seat/regular seat lottery
Carat Mobile Premium Seat/regular seat lottery
Second fanclub lottery (Regular seats + annotated seats)
Second Carat Mobile lottery (Regular seats + annotated seats)
Lawson L-encore card holders (Regular seats + annotated seats)
General Ticketing (Not lottery, first come first serve)
Annotated seats are regular seats, but they may have some stage equipment or something like that in the way, so your view could possibly be obstructed.
You can also pay a monthly fee to become a Lawson premium member. This ups your chances of winning, though I don't know for sure how much it actually helps! If anyone wants to do this or needs help with it I can make a different post for it, I ran out of photo space on this post (Reddit limits to 20 pictures per post)!
Lawson Ticket
When doing fanclub or carat mobile ticketing, Lawson will ask for your membership number before you can apply to anything. If you are not a member of the fanclub or mobile, you will not be able to apply for these lottery tickets :( In the past there have been general lotteries, but there was not one for this fanmeeting. For Be The Sun, there was a lottery for general Lawson members that anyone could apply for.
To do any lottery ticketing, you will have to sign up for a Lawson Ticket account. It will ask for a phone number when you sign up. This is where you sign up . When you click this, it will ask for an email address, password, and to accept the terms of service. It looks like this.
Once you click the box at the bottom, the blue button will light up, and then you can press next (the button on the right). It will then send you an email, and once you confirm it you can keep going.
This is what the email will look like, make sure to check different mailboxes in case it goes to spam.
Click the link, and it will now ask for your password again. After that, we’re on to account information. If you do not have an address in Japan, use the address you are currently staying at, or have a friend lend you theirs. They will not send the tickets to the address, so you don’t have to worry about that. Just get something in there! The page looks like this, and I put in English what you need to put in! PLEASE MAKE SURE THIS IS ALL RIGHT!!! If you are selected for tickets, you may get your name checked at the gate on the day of the concert, and if your name doesn’t match up they could refuse you entry. They check every name for premium seats, so if you are applying for those please be extra careful! For your katakana name just look up a Japanese katakana chart and try to match your english name as best as possible, it doesn’t really matter because your name will be printed in both English and Katakana on the ticket.
Don’t forget your last name goes first, then your first name!
For this tutorial I used one of my family’s American phone numbers and it took it with no questions, so just put your real phone number in and it should be fine!
After this page, you have finished signing up!
Now that we have our account, we can apply for tickets. Back to the Seventeen Japan page screenshotted earlier in the post, there will be open links when it is time to apply for tickets. The boxes with red lettering under tickets will turn into links when it is time to ticket, and there should also be an active link in the description box when you push the arrow on the side for more information.
For when the tickets are open, Lawson has a guide for you, here is the link. Because you’ll come straight from the Seventeen website it’ll dump you straight on the ticketing page, so you can ignore the first step!
After you apply to the lottery, you will receive confirmation emails for your entries. They look like this.
It will tell you on the email when they will announce the winners. These results came out on March 24th at 11 am. You can see your results on My Page on the Lawson ticket website at that time, but usually the servers are so crowded you will never be able to log in. Other than that, and what I usually do, is wait for the emails. You will get an email telling you if you have gotten the tickets or not.
A losing email is on the left, and a winning one is on the right. As you can see by the time stamps, the winning one comes in a few minutes later. Since Seventeen started using Lawson ticketing, it has been my experience that the winning emails always come late. If you get two fail emails together and are waiting for a few minutes on a third, it most likely means you've won!!! :D
The word signaling you've won is 当選. It is in the second line of the email towards the end of the sentence. In the losing email, the third line ends with できませんでした which means you failed.
Since I chose to pay at the convenience store, I had to go pay at a Lawson using the Loppi machine (instructions here . To pick up tickets, you need the phone number you used, as well as the number under the artist name (I blanked mine out). The first date in March in this email told me when I needed to pay by (March 28th at 11:00 pm) and the second date in May is when I could go pick up my tickets (from May 12th at 1pm to to March 27th at 11pm). When you go to pay, the cashier will give you a slip of paper that shows you paid. Make sure to hang onto this!! I always hold onto my receipt too just in case. When you go to get your tickets, you just give the cashier that paper, and they print the tickets out for you. As you can see, the pickup date ran all the way until the day before the last day of the fanmeeting, so if you aren’t in Japan until right at the date then that is okay! Just make sure to pick them up at any Lawson before your time runs out! You won’t know your seats until you pick up your tickets.
General ticketing is not a lottery. You will need to get onto the fastest wifi you can and fight everybody tooth and nail for these tickets. I have tried general ticketing for 5-6 years, and I have never been successful. Lol… But I will cheer all you general sales people on!! You got this!! Make sure to follow the steps above for an account well before the date, as you will get tripped up and miss your ticketing chance if you don’t pre-register. Also be sure to have your debit/credit card entered, as I have heard of much more success from those who pay by card rather than convenience store pay.
Before I get into fanclub and carat mobile, I want to let you know that if you do not have an address or phone number in Japan, getting into these is basically impossible. The fanclub sends you mail, so you can’t just put any address in. Carat Mobile is only available on phones, and you have to have a Japanese phone number to actually have an account. I’m sorry :(
The Fanclub does its sign ups through Lawson, and you pay a year’s sum when you sign up. Go to the Seventeen Japan website and click the button on the top left of this picture!
Scroll down to the white box at the bottom, and make sure the little box above it is checked to agree to Lawson terms.
You’ll go on to Lawson, where you come to this page.
The button on the left takes you to the application, and the button on the right takes you to what’s included in the membership. Click the left button!
On the new page, scroll to the bottom and agree to terms, then click the blue button on the right and login to your Lawson account.
The next page will ask for your details. Because you already signed up for an account it should be automatically filled in. Just make sure everything is right, as again they will be checking your name for premium or VIP seats. You also get a Carat ID card in the mail when you sign up for the fanclub, so make sure everything is spelled correctly! Don’t forget that your last name goes first, then your first name!
When you press next, it will take you to a page that asks your bias and your favorite unit. Members are listed in fanchant order, the units are 1. Vocal 2. Hip Hop 3. Performance. Choose and press next! :)
On the next page, it will confirm that all of your information is correct. Please triple check that everything is correct!!
Next it will ask for a payment method. Credit card is on the left.
Put in your card details, and you’re finished! You’ll get an email with your fanclub member number and a link, press the link and it will prompt you to set your password. Here’s what the email looks like.
You are now signed up!! Your ID card and pin will be in the mail within two months :)
Within the past two years the fanclub has introduced ticket trading, where if someone cannot go to the concert but has tickets, they can put them up for sale. The Seventeen Japan Twitter usually posts when this becomes available, and you can only access it if you are a fanclub member. Tickets are available for face value + handling fees. I have not done this before, so I have no advice or guidance for this part! I am sorry! I assume it will be mostly the same as the other ticketing in this post though, so hopefully if you choose this route you can use something from here to help.
Carat Mobile
Now for Carat Mobile. Carat Mobile is a better option for those who cannot or do not want to pay the larger fanclub fee all at once. The monthly fee is 550 yen, or about $3.92 usd. Carat Mobile is only available on your phone, so scan the qr code from the website here and continue to sign up on your phone.
Once you scan the QR code, click the three bars in the top right of the screen. Then, click the button under "Gallery" to go to make a new account.
Once you are here, it will ask for an email address and for you to accept the terms of service. Check your email for a sign up email. The email looks like this. The link will expire in 24 hours, so make sure to complete registration right away!
It will ask for these things, in order:
Password (choose yours)
Password confirmation
Last name
First name
Last name (Katakana)
First name (Katakana)
Birthday (YY/MM/DD)
Phone number
Address (Zip code > Prefecture > Street number + Apartment building name + Apartment number)
Once you finish putting these in, push confirm (bottom button) and it will take you to a payment site. Press credit card, put your silly numbers in, your name, agree to the terms of service, and press the very bottom button. It will take you to the finishing page, where it will give you your member number. The number will be seven numbers starting with an M.
You are now a Carat Mobile member! Congrats! It will bill you monthly.
Unofficial ticketing
If you lose all the lotteries or cannot access Carat Mobile or the Japanese Fanclub, you can go the unofficial way: Twitter or proxy sites! These tickets are much riskier, as Japanese venues randomly check names on tickets. If you are checked and the name doesn’t match your ID, the staff will turn you away and you will not be able to enter the venue.
If you want to look for tickets on twitter, here is your format. I’ll use the Love Fanmeeting as the example. Type this into the twitter search bar.
SEVENTEEN 2023 JAPAN FANMEETING 'LOVE' セブチ ペンミ ファンミ チケット
求 (want)▶︎5/28 東京ドーム 1枚 (date you want + how many, this one says tokyo dome 1 ticket)
譲 (will give) ▶︎定価+手数料 (list price + handling fee)
Or switch it around, but it should give you the same result! I.e.
求 (want)▶︎ 定価+手数料 (list price + handling fee)
譲 (will give) ▶︎ 5/28 東京ドーム 1枚 (tokyo dome 1 ticket)
Listings look like this.
Once again, Premium Seats/VIP seats will ALWAYS check your name. DO NOT BUY THESE SECOND HAND!!
People make burner accounts just for selling, like this one is.
They are asking for list price and handling fee, but some people ask for you to name a price. These tickets will be very expensive, as it is competitive and these people usually have many people asking for tickets.
When you’re looking for tickets, make sure that the characters are in the correct place.
What the person in the tweet is looking for is under this kanji: 求
What the person in the tweet is in possession of is under this kanji: 譲
When buying tickets from twitter, the people will usually meet you at the venue with the tickets. They should take them out and show you to prove they are real. You then hand them the money. This is probably the safest way to go if you’re doing unofficial sales, as other sites may make you pay in advance. If they are a scammer, your money is lost :( Unlike other countries, there are no official resale sites. Be careful, and godspeed!
Seventeen Cafe
Now for all the other smaller events you can go to!! The Seventeen Museum and Cafe happen once a year. Each time it happens, there is a new webpage for it.
I’ll use the most recent cafe, 2022 Winter Camping, to show how to get tickets. Here is the link to see! First, you’ll have to make an account with the company that runs the cafes.
At the top right of the page, press the left button. The first page is terms and services, accept these. It will ask you for your email, and will then take you to this page.
Make sure to remember last name, first name! To make sure foreigners can also access this, I made a new account with an overseas phone number, and it worked! :) It will take you to the info confirmation page next, where you just make sure everything is right. There are two buttons, a black one on the left and a white one on the right. Even if the colors change, their positions should stay the same. Click the one on the right.
And you’re finished! Now you can make a reservation. Weekends and Friday evenings fill up very fast, so if you can’t go on weekdays get to reservations right when they start! The Seventeen Japan Twitter will announce when they start.
Hover over the reservation tab and pick the store you want to go to. They are usually in English, just make sure you pick the right one!!
Scroll to the bottom of the page and it will show you the available dates.
I can’t click on any because it is over, but when you click on the date it will show you the available times. Pick your time, how many people you want ( I think it’s up to two), and finish the registration. It will send you an email. This is what the email looks like! If you chose to pay at the convenience store, it will also have the number you need to input into the machine to pay at the store. You usually get random goods when you go as well, so it will tell you that too.
On the day of your reservation, show up about 5-10 minutes early. Other Carats will start lining up then too. The staff will go down the line and confirm your tickets. Go to “my page” on the website and click the first button.
It will come up with a QR code that the staff will scan. When it has gone through, the webpage will change, so it can’t just be a screenshot! You have to show the actual webpage. When you enter the cafe or when you sit down you will get to randomly draw your benefits! For this cafe it was a random plastic card and a card case.
Study the menu and things beforehand, as when you line up the staff will give you a clipboard where you pick what you want to eat and drink. Each of the members have a meal, and there are also drinks with coasters. You pick which member you want on the coaster when you check which drink you want on the paper. The staff will also give you small cards with numbers on them when you sit down. They will call each number up 4 at a time to go to the merch area and purchase what you want. This is your one time to grab merch, and you can’t go back up. Choose wisely and quickly!! If you’re very brave, you can try to trade with other carats at the cafe for your bias. You can usually see whose bias is whose because of the photocards and merch each person brings. I love going to the cafes, it’s so fun to see other carats and enjoy the cafe with them :) They play music videos and a video that the sebongies shot for the cafe, they tell you to have fun and talk about the theme of the cafe. You have an hour and a half to sit! If you have the chance to, please go!! Have fun! :)
Seventeen Museum
Getting tickets for the Museum is a lot like the cafe. If you want weekend/Friday night tickets, get reservations early!
Museum tickets are on Lawson ticket. Log in before we start to streamline the process!
The museums are announced on the Seventen Japan Twitter! This was the page for the 2022 museum.
This is where you went for tickets. The top links are for those who want to go in the earlier month (September) and below was for those who missed ticketing for September or could go in the later months (October and November). If you don’t want to do it online, you can also buy tickets when you get to the museum, but they may turn you away if the time slot is filled.
Once you click a link, it will have you accept Lawson terms of service. Click the right button to continue. You will go through the same process as you would with concert tickets. Make sure you pick the right venue! They have merch for the museum, and this time there was a random draw when you enter for one bromide picture of a member (I pulled cheol hehe). Because it’s the same as the concert tickets, please refer to the concert ticket section if you need help there!
Pop up stores
When there is a comeback and before a concert, there are pop up stores. There are albums, concert merch, and other things, as well as a photo spot to take pictures. Same as the cafe and museum, get there very fast for weekend and Friday night spots. I’ll use the most recent Love popup for this example! These tickets were sold through weverse. The following picture is the button for making reservations!
Next page, push the big purple button to go on.
Though the buttons/colors will change for each pop-up shop, the words on the buttons shouldn't change, so for other events just make sure the kanji lines up!
It will take you to weverse login. After login, scroll to the bottom of the page, accept terms of service, and click the bottom button, it says the same as the button above, お申込に進む .
The next page asks for your information!
Small Japanese lesson for furigana! In Japanese, there are multiple alphabets; hiragana (furigana), katakana, and kanji. Non-Japanese names will be in katakana, which is the way that foreign words are written in Japanese. Hiragana is the basic Japanese alphabet, and furigana is written above kanji to indicate its pronunciation. I feel like the easiest thing for those who do not know Japanese is to use a hiragana generator. Here's one I found with a quick google search.
Okay back to ticketing! After you confirm your details, this is the next page; selecting your tickets. Because the shop is finished, we can’t see the dates and times anymore, but I’ll tell you what’s up.
So pick your date and time and finish! You don’t have to pay to get in, but slots go so fast, so be quick with your picks! :) You will be able to tell you're at the right spot by the huge line of carats outside the store lol.
And that's what I have! If I've missed something or anyone else wants to add anything please put it in the comments!! I made this to help you all participate in these events, and I hope you all get in to the things you want to go to. This took me about four hours, so I hope it helps at least one person lol! Let's keep loving and supporting Seventeen for a long time^^
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2023.05.30 02:58 REOMeadFlagon Hinge - 1 Month Summary for an Average Guy

Seeing as how it isn’t always the case with posts on here (especially for average guys like me), I thought I’d share my most recent experience with OLD as it was largely positive.
I’m located in a more rural state with roughly a 60k city population, and around 80-100k in a 100 mile radius. It’s mostly made up of older farmers/ranchers and retirees though the young professional scene seems to be growing.
After 1 month here’s the results: Likes 21, Matches 12, Unmatched (by them) 2, Unmatched (by me) 4, Conversations 9, Multi Day Conversations 4, Weeklong Conversations 1, In Person Dates 0, Second Dates 0, Third Dates 0, Relationships 0
I’ve been on/off and very much love/hate with dating apps for the past 5ish years, though it did result in one great relationship that ended in a mutual split for reasons beyond our control.
Over the past year I wanted to focus on meeting women organically or through friends. It’s actually been going pretty well! I’ve been asking better questions, been more engaging and noticed an overall improvement in my social skills, though nothing has stuck.
So I summoned the beast once again and decided to get back on hinge about a month ago. This time though, I adhered to a clear method since I’ve been down nearly every disappointing road I see posted about on here constantly. My method was: Hinge would NOT serve as my primary (or even secondary) method for putting myself out there. It’d act as a small supplement to the other real life avenues I’d carved out. I also made a point to send every like with a personal message about something that caught my interest on their profile; and I only liked fully filled out profiles with decent pictures and prompt answers largely devoid of any minimal effort quips. I also promised myself to avoid getting as attached to matches (at least in the short term) since ghosting, slow fading, flakiness, dead end conversations etc. are the status quo in OLD. I figured I’d trade a few interesting messages with people but that’d likely be all, and I’d accepted that as a fact.
The rest is more about how I wove my personality/lifestyle into my profile, scroll to the bottom if you want the TL/DR.
I included flattering (but NOT filtered, or otherwise misleading) pictures with one nice clear face shot at the start, a short video, a voice prompt, a mix of full body looks and other shots of me participating in various activities/events over the last few years. I also did my best to breathe my voice into the prompts. I stayed FAAAR away from any cliched answers and ruthlessly edited them until they read clear and concise with a smooth flow. This probably took the most work. I really wanted women to know I’m not doing the bare minimum, but that I also don’t take myself too seriously. I did, however include a section about how important clear communication and initiative is to me as that’s been a recurring issue in nearly all my past matches.
About me: 30 male, 6’1”, 205 lb, caucasian, straight, monogamous, never been married, want a long term relationship, never had kids but want kids, stable full time job in construction management. I chose not to include my political leanings because none of the options accurately described my stances plus I believe I’m compatible with a wide range of viewpoints. Im not really religious though Christianity is probably the closest fit. Given that, I didn’t think it was worth putting on my profile either. I keep in decent shape but I’m a little fluffy in a few areas, though it’s not immediately noticeable with a shirt on. I’m by no means a head turner but I’d like to think I’m above average in looks. I take care of myself and thus would consider my looks slightly above average, though not because I hit the genetic lottery. My hairline is starting to recede and it’s turning grey in a few spots but near as I can tell it’s not a significant draw back to my appearance and I try to always maintain a baseline of personal hygiene. I have a college degree and I live with roommates. I like the occasional drink, not really into drugs or weed and definitely not tobacco or smoking. I also don’t have any pets.
Given the method I approached OLD with this go round I’d say the experience has been very positive so far! I’m happy I’ve had the pleasure of trading a few insightful messages with some awesome people (one woman even turned me on to a new band that I’ve been obsessing over lately). I’ll continue trying to meet people in real life and it will consume the majority of my focus going forward. But, much to my surprise, the experience has been great this go round.
TL/DR: I got back on Hinge. Put some honest effort into my profile and how I went about liking/matching. Went into it with little/no expectations and remained unattached to matches in the short term. Ended up having a positive experience even though I’m very “average” in nearly every sense of the word.
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